Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

OK, I am still learning. I started learning hard core in 2012, now I am also getting into Medical Astrology. What I am looking at right now is Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals and how does that compare to the way they do match making in India. Examples:

The reading I did yesterday for a couple that have been together since they were 13 and still have a healthy thriving relationship after 9 years. I don’t have their time and location of birth, this is just based on their birthdays.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3022
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1453
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 2.08
Total Communication Index: 4476

Here is my brother and his wife; their charts are a little off, but the Ascendants are good, Mercury is good. Sun, Mars and Moon are also good; the only thing off was Venus. They haven’t been together all that long, but they seem to be working.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +4784
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -570
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 8.4
Total Communication Index: 5353

My Ex2012 and I whom was one of my longest and maybe healthiest relationship ever… The only thing off in our charts was Mars. We had a great first 5 years, we almost lasted 7 years and the last year ended in disaster.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +1610
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -3109
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): .52
Total Communication Index: 4719

Another Ex and I who also was astrologically compatible for the most part. Mars and Venus was off in our charts. Her and I are still friends, but not as close as we use to be. We lasted a long time, but not continuous; we dated off and on for almost a decade.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3605
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1908
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 1.89
Total Communication Index: 5513

My Ex2014 and I, we only lasted about a year. We wouldn’t have even lasted that long. We got together in July 2013, started having problems in Dec. 2013, broke up the first time in Jan. 2014; but got back together a week later and lasted another 9 months. We had our Mercury and Venus off. Mercury was the biggest issue I think.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3695
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1647
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 2.24
Total Communication Index: 5342

Here is my Jr. High School Sweetheart whom I just found on FaceBook, we lost touch 25 years ago, but it probably wouldn’t have worked out anyway. We have Mercury and our Moons off; don’t know what time she was born, so I don’t know her Ascendant or house placements. (This one isn’t accurate because I don’t know her time of birth).

Communication Index (Harmonious): +2601
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -860
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 3.03
Total Communication Index: 3461


Here is my brother and I, he was my arch nemesis thoughout our growing up. Though we get along better now that we don’t live together…

Communication Index (Harmonious): +4998
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1016
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 4.92
Total Communication Index: 6013


What does it all mean??? I am still looking into it…

According to the astrologer that put my program together:

Some users have inquired regarding the normal range and significance of the different communication indexes. The range of the Harmonious Communication and Inharmonious Communication Indexes between two charts is from about 300 to 6000. This is for the default planet and aspect orb settings. Below 1500 is low; above 2500 is high. For compatibility, the Harmonious should be high and the Inharmonious low.
A Compatibility Index over 1.5 is high and over 2.5 is very high.

The positive or negative values that the planets and aspects are believed to have for personal relationships can be determined by examining the values that print out for each aspect when you choose Display Synastry during the Compare This Chart to Another menu selection on the Chart Information Screen. These numerical values have no absolute meaning; they are used to determine the sign and amount of an aspect’s contribution to the Harmonious and Inharmonious totals.
The Compatibility Index is the ratio of the Harmonious amount to the Inharmonious amount. The higher the Compatibility Index, the more the relationship is easy and free from friction.

You should look at the planetary aspects making up the indexes as you would not want, for example, discordant Saturn aspects that could warp or stunt growth (harmonious Saturn aspects promote stability and working out karmic problems).

A low Total Communication Index (less than 1800) gives so little communication that the two people are like ships passing in the night.
Regarding the total communication, we have become aware of the extent to which different people have different degrees of comfort with closeness or intimacy — this can affect the level of communication or closeness that they should have with their ideal partner. The speculation at this point is that an unaspected Moon or difficult aspects to the Moon or Venus could create a personality that finds emotional aspects from others to be unfamiliar and possibly uncomfortable.


Hello, at this moment I am working on my date lines as well as looking for astrological compatibility for myself. OKC is OK, but I have not had too much luck there for some reason. On DateHookup, the last time I was on single, people there seemed to be open to astrology and wanted to learn from me; I made a few friends there but no Hookups. I stumbled upon SingleParentMeet the last time I was single; they use astrology in their site, but only Sun, Venus and Mars. Not too bad, it helps; but know one on there seems to have a clue about astrology. I never had any luck till now, it seems that one is starting to work,,, sort of. Not astrologically, but I am getting contacts. Mostly from people I am not interested in or that are not astrologically compatible to me, but I talk to them anyway. Hopefully my astrology dating site will be more successful “Astrologically” speaking.

Anyway; the reason I came here to post is because my mother sent me this via email and I wanted to share it with you. It’s not Spot On, but its fun and it has validity. The only issue is; Horoscope means “Hour of Birth” not Sun Sign:

AQUARIUS – Does It in the Water (January 20 to February 18)
Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in long-term relationships. Tries hard. Will take on any project. Proud of themselves in whatever they do. Messy and unorganized. Procrastinators. Great lovers, when they’re not sleeping. Extreme thinkers. Loves their pets usually more than their family. Can be VERY irritating to others when they try to explain or tell a story. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a fighter, but will knock your lights out.

PISCES – The Partner for Life (February 19 to March 20)
Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be.

ARIES – The Aggressive (March 21 to April 19)
Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny… Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, and family is very important to an Aries. Aries are known for being generous and giving. Addictive. Loud. Always has the need to be ‘Right’. Aries will argue to prove their point for hours and hours. Aries are some of the most wonderful people in the world.

TAURUS – The Tramp (April 20 to May 20)
Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight. Fight for what they want. Can be annoying at times, but for the love of attention. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. They can be self-centered and if they want something they will do anything to get it. They love to sleep and can be lazy. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth!

GEMINI – The Twin (May 21 to June 20)
Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners. Very good at confusing people. Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Geminis will not take any crap from anyone. Geminis like to tell people what they should do and get offended easily. They are great at losing things and are forgetful. Geminis can be very sarcastic and childish at times and are very nosy. Trustworthy. Always happy. VERY Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.

CANCER – The Beauty (June 21 to July 22)
MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. A Cancer’s love is one of a kind… Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet in your life. Entirely creative person, most are artists and insane, respectfully speaking. They perfected sex and do it often. Extremely random. An ultimate freak. Extremely funny and is usually the life of the party. Most Cancers will take you under their wing and into their hearts where you will remain forever. Cancers make love with a passion beyond compare. Spontaneous. Not a fighter, but will kick your ass good if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to!

LEO – The Lion (July 23 to August 22)
Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Usually happy but when unhappy tend to be grouchy and childish. A Leo’s problem becomes everyone’s problem. Most Leos are very predictable and tend to be monotonous. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Very predictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.

VIRGO – The One that Waits (August 23 to September 22)
Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances. Needs to have the last say in everything. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. They do not forgive and never forget. The one and only.

LIBRA – The Lame One (September 23 to October 22)
Nice to everyone they meet. Their love is one of a kind. Silly, funny and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with… you might end up crying. Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. Faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports and are extreme sports fanatics. Very creative. A hopeless romantic.

SCORPIO – The Addict (October 23 to November 21)
EXTREMELY adorable. Loves to joke. Very good sense of humor. Will try almost anything once. Loves to be pampered. Energetic. Predictable. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want. Attractive. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Loves to party but at times to the extreme. Loves the smell and feel of money and is good at making it but just as good at spending it! Very protective over loved ones. HARD workers. Can be a good friend but if is disrespected by a friend, the friendship will end. Romantic. Caring.

SAGITTARIUS – The Promiscuous One (November 22 to December 21)
Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. A loner most of the time. Loses patience easily and will not take crap. If in a bad mood stay FAR away. Gets offended easily and remembers the offense forever. Loves deeply but at times will not show it, feels it is a sign of weakness. Has many fears but will not show it. VERY private person. Defends loved ones with all their abilities. Can be childish often. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in bed!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying.

CAPRICORN – The Passionate Lover (December 22 to January 19)
Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy, but when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to win against other signs in sports, especially Gemini’s. Likes to cook but would rather go out
To eat at good restaurants. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.

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When I started this site in March of 2013, I was getting paid $0.00 to do it, I was doing this as a gift because I am a believer. I still make my primary income off my J.O.B. (just over broke) and off the other date lines, web design, hosting and the like; so before you leave, please at least check out one of our links? In the future, I will be making money off this site by doing personal readings and astrological counseling where I can.

I originally bought in Sept. 2010 hoping to turn it into a date line as I was starting to get more into astrology myself. I was using the Sun Signs and Chinese Horoscopes to understand people better and felt I was doing way better than just using one sign; I also was looking at their cusps if applicable, which is an attribute we must consider. I wasn’t 100% on target, but what I have learned has put me on the right path. Come to find out, we actually have several signs in our charts, unfortunately I didn’t know enough about astrology to build a date line for it yet. The Chinese astrology is apparently on target too, each Chinese sign translates into the other astrology. Example: Being that the year of the Dragon is the year of Aries and so forth. Now as of Winter 2014, I am going to try and launch another Astrological Dating site; you can “Click Here” to access it now.


I mostly put this site together in 2012 for one “Jeff DeTrick”, a friend of my associate David Irish of When I mentioned Dating By The Signs to David Irish around 2010, he told me about Jeff and their history. Until I myself started having serious relationship problems, I never actually contacted Jeff. But when I did; Jeff helped me work through my relationship issues and helped me to understand my signs, so I can focus on pulling from my positives rather then my negatives. It’s to bad he wasn’t practicing what he was teaching me.

Jeff claimed to be studying Eastern Natal (Birth) and Synastry (Compatibility) astrology, but what he taught me was his own spinoff from what he has learned. I keep finding new things wrong in what I learned from him; but for the most part, it was right enough for me to go to the next level. The things he says about astrology is; “It was all created by GOD” & like it says in the bible, “We all have free will over our signs”. We use this to understand who we are, where we are pulling from, who is right for us, and how to deal with the differences you and I have between our charts. If we don’t pull from our positives, then we are going to have problems in life. Then I found out he was using astrology to use and manipulate people, so I got away from him and will not refer anyone to him again. My apologies to those I have already referred to him, I did not know.

The Astrologer who wrote the computer program that I use, says that you don’t have to necessarily be astrologically compatible. It is knowing astrology that helps you to understand each other and why the other person does as they do. Knowing their astrology will help you to get along with them better. From my experience; I would say there are a few astrological positions you MUST have, but others you can let slide.

Jeff started studying astrology and got into the metaphysical in/around 1971, before I was even born. He didn’t start giving readings till 1988, I was in Jr. High at that time. Around 1996 I got into alternative health and then psychology. Over the years, I dabbled in astrology; but it wasn’t till 2012 and meeting Jeff did I discover true astrology. He says I took to it like a duck takes to water; most Gemini’s and Leo’s, especially men, don’t get this. Perhaps my many years of studying people and behavior through psychology helps, that and my two and a half Virgo’s 😉

So if you want to consult a decent astrologer; you can do so here; people have accused me of being psychic when I give them readings :) I am also learning business astrology, to make sure you are compatible in business relationships as well as personal ones. I have a Fire Trine in my business with an Aries and a Sag. and I am learning to only surround myself with astrological compatibility within my inter circle of people.

Another Astrologist I followed was Kapiel Raaj, he is awesome and has a lot of valuable information! I wanted to learn more about the true art of Vedic Astrology, so I am no longer studying under Jeff. However; what I have learned has redirected me back to Western Astrology, which Jeff was doing in the first place from what I understand. But he claimed it to be Eastern, so I don’t know. I just know he wasn’t being honest with his customers and me. As of Jan. 2015 I had a new mentor for about 6 months, but he turned out to be not much better then Jeff.

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So from now on, I am not taking on any more mentors; especially ones with their heads up their butts. Can you tell I have Capricorn influence in my chart? I will learn on my own as I have pretty much have been doing all along. I will take on partners who are equally yoked in astrology and/or students who believe that T3AMWORK MAKES THE DR3AM WORK. If you are a competent astrologer, I am promoting other astrologers on my other site @


Now that I have been studying since 2010/2012, I know and understand a lot more about people then I did before. In that, I am taking this site to a whole new level now in 2015. I am doing the astrology interpretations for you the people. You can get copies of some of the work I have already done for others here for FREE, but any additional work I do, I need to be compensated for my time, studies and overhead. I am studying to help people in a deeper more psychological and social level.

Astrology comes in many forms; The Farmers Almanac, Astronomy, Horoscopes, and so forth. I was told there are hundreds of different types of astrology; I am now also starting to get into medical astrology, did you know you can also plan your children to be born astrologically compatible to you and therefore have less issues and/or problems with them then people who just wing it in the rest of the world? You can also understand your health issues and health issues of your loved ones through astrology. This is truly fascinating stuff!!!

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