1982-03-23 – 1983-02-16 @ 1232pm – StarMatch

 

 

Hi, I was wondering if you would be willing to do a comparability for a female born on 16-Feb-83 at 12:32pm in Dayton Ohio and a male born on 23-Mar-1982 in Idaho…sorry I don’t have his time or city.

I don’t normally do free readings much anymore, but since it is Valentines; here you go: Happy Valentines! Keep in mind this is not 100% accurate because you don’t have his time and location of birth. At the bottom, you will see: Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

Communication Index (Harmonious): +2738
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1415
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 1.94
Total Communication Index: 4153

1.94 is a good number, but this is not accurate either. Pending his time and location of birth, this number could go up or down. The higher the number, the less work the relationship will be.

My brother has found the best match I have found so far:

Communication Index (Harmonious): +4784
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -570
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 8.4
Total Communication Index: 5353

The best match I had been able to find for my birthday so far is:

1973-12-23 @ 4:04am Gemini Asc @24 degrees – 7.74 compatibility

But I had only found the match for myself only on paper, my best matches I have found in real life is in the 2’s. The one I am talking to right now is 2.11

 

 

1982-03-23 - 1983-02-16 1232 - starmatch

 

 

Introduction

 

 

The StarMatch(tm) astrological compatibility report helps you compare two charts by 1) identifying each partner’s emotional needs by describing their Descendant (7th house cusp), Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars; and 2) examining the way their two charts interact. After describing what each partner needs in their love life, the report assesses their interaction by describing the significant aspects between their charts. These aspects identify areas of attraction, harmony, and conflict. The “Strength” noted for each aspect shows its degree of influence on the relationship. The Strength combines the aspect’s closeness of exactitude with its positive or negative value for compatibility purposes. The higher the Strength is, the more strongly the aspect is likely to be felt and acted out in the relationship.
Planets in Signs

1982-03-23’s Sun in Aries

 

 

While Arians generally enjoy the chase much more than actually catching their prey, it is possible for them to have a satisfactory relationship with a partner who, like them, thrives on constant change. You need a lover whose physical and sexual energies are as strong as yours and who is as enthusiastic about life as you are. You may enjoy engaging in competitive sports or wrestling matches with your partner.

You need a lover who is understanding and patient with your rashness and impulsiveness. Since you are somewhat naive in matters of love, you also need a partner whom you can trust not to deceive you.
Anastasia’s Sun in Aquarius

 

 

As a lover you are very understanding and sympathetic. You are usually able to accept your mate’s flaws and imperfections, but you do have a limit as to what you will tolerate in a relationship. Your personal freedom is very important to you, and if your partner can allow this you will reward him or her with ample love and devotion. It is essential that your mate also be one of your closest friends.

Communication is very important to you in matters of the heart. You feel that with open lines of communication any problems in a relationship can be solved. This is much more important to you, in fact, than sex–and you may find that one cannot exist without the other. You require variety in your sex life and therefore seek a partner who is inventive and open-minded about sex.
1982-03-23’s Moon in Pisces

 

 

It may appear to others that you are emotionally unsteady–since you are subject to mood swings in relationships. With time and maturity this will be resolved. A secure, long-term relationship is what you seek; this allows you to adjust to your mate and settle in as his/her partner. For this reason, you are attracted to lovers who are more stable than you. They will understand your emotional wavering and love you as you are.

Your emotions are intense and well-developed. When choosing a mate the inner person interests you much more than the outer trappings. You are able to see into your lover’s heart and detect qualities that others do not recognize. Your friends may even question your choice of partners.
Anastasia’s Moon in Aries

 

 

You tend to live for the moment and make lightning-quick decisions in your love life. For this reason, you may rush into love affairs too quickly before you have had a chance to accurately assess the situation. You need a partner who is exciting and spontaneous. Otherwise, you may find that you often leave him or her behind when you dash off in pursuit of new adventures.

Be careful not to let the affair become so intense that it burns itself out quickly. Look before you leap into an intimate committed relationship. You need a partner who can help keep the feeling of newness and excitement alive in your relationship.
1982-03-23’s Mercury in Pisces

 

 

You love your partner deeply and compassionately, and sex is clearly your most complete way of giving yourself to your lover. As a sexual partner you are very tender and loving, and the emotional satisfaction you achieve from the sexual union is often stronger than the physical sensations you experience. You surrender yourself totally to your partner, so that the two of you become one. Since you can become very vulnerable emotionally, you need a lover who will not take advantage of your loving nature.

Be sure not to become self-sacrificial in your sexual affairs. Don’t agree to a sexual relationship if you really don’t want one. It won’t work if you do it out of obligation or because you are feeling unloved at the moment. Later you’ll just end up feeling like a martyr to your partner’s sexual satisfaction. With the right person, sex can be the beautiful blending of souls which you envision.
Anastasia’s Mercury in Aquarius

 

 

You have a very sharp and inventive mind, and your ideas may seem outrageous to others. You find scientific and metaphysical studies to be intellectually invigorating, and you would prefer a partner who shares these interests (or at least doesn’t criticize your beliefs).

Sexual experimentation comes naturally to you, and you will approach it carefully and cautiously, almost scientifically. Stimulation of your mind is at least as important as arousal of your body, and you need a partner who can turn you on intellectually. You are very eclectic in your approach to lovemaking and offer your partner a constantly changing sexual repertoire. For this reason you are usually an excellent lover.
1982-03-23’s Venus in Aquarius

 

 

In your love relationships you prefer a partner who is unique and a little off-beat by society’s standards. You need a lover who can respect your need for personal freedom and your own individual identity. Because you are so afraid of being tied down, it is difficult for you to establish and maintain long-term love relationships.

You are rebellious and “negatively suggestible” in your love affairs. That is, the best way to get you to do something is to demand that you do just the opposite. You can be extremely stubborn at times and can turn ice cold when you are hurt. Once you have committed yourself to a partner, you are loyal and truthful and are willing to extend the same personal freedom to your lover that you desire.
Anastasia’s Venus in Pisces

 

 

Sensitivity and compassion are qualities that you appreciate in a lover. You especially would like to have a lover who can intuit your needs psychically so that you don’t even have to articulate them. But be realistic–your partner doesn’t have a crystal ball. Be willing to communicate directly at least part of the time.

You may carry karmic baggage from other lives, and this placement has produced many martyrs and sacrificial lambs. Your partner should be someone you feel you can truly trust, because you are prone to becoming a victim in matters of the heart. You are a tender and sensitive lover, and you seek spiritual rather than just sexual union with your mate.
1982-03-23’s Mars in Libra

 

 

You seek a certain amount of refinement and social grace in your partner. Appearances are important to you, and you are concerned about what others think of you. It is likely that your partner will be physically attractive as well as poised and tactful. You are very attentive and will go to extreme lengths to please your partner.

You often instigate change in your relationships and become bored quickly with any that become static. Just be sure that you do not provoke change just for the sake of change; learn to recognize which elements of your relationship should be preserved and which should be thrown out. It is important to you that any relationship you have maintain a quality of fairness.
Anastasia’s Mars in Pisces

 

 

Although to others you may appear weak and indecisive, you are actually very compassionate and sensitive. You find it very satisfying to deny your own ego in order to gratify the one you love. In this way you learn the secret of strength through self-sacrifice. Just be sure your partner deserves such unselfish devotion. Don’t be deceived by others because you are so anxious to see your ideal in them.

You are a very tender and sensitive lover. Your innate intuition and psychic abilities lead you to seek a higher meaning to sex–some spiritual connection beyond the mere physical act. Be careful to remain strong within yourself. Resist the temptation to become dependent on your partner.
Planets in Aspect

1982-03-23’s Sun sextile Anastasia’s Mercury (Strength: +682.5 )

 

 

This is an excellent aspect for communication. It is easy for you to agree and cooperate, and you have many common interests. 1982-03-23 is a willing listener and encourages Anastasia to express ideas, so that Anastasia feels thoroughly understood. Anastasia would be wise to heed 1982-03-23’s advice, and 1982-03-23 may be able to provide Anastasia with opportunities for learning and study. This is a good aspect in any comparison, particularly between the charts of parent/child, teacher/student, employer/employee.
Anastasia’s Sun sextile 1982-03-23’s Neptune (Strength: +300.0 )

 

 

This aspect indicates a spiritual tie. There is a strong attraction between you and you encourage self-confidence in each other. You also provide each other with much inspiration, understanding, compassion, sympathy and sensitivity. You may enjoy psychic communication; at the least there is a mutual interest in the occult or metaphysics. There is much romance and devotion between you, and you are patient and tolerant of each other’s shortcomings. 1982-03-23 stimulates Anastasia’s imagination, while Anastasia may provide 1982-03-23 with guidance and a greater sense of direction and purpose.
1982-03-23’s Uranus opposite Anastasia’s Ascendant (Strength: +293.7 )

 

 

At the very least, your partnership will be unusual. At its best, you can have a harmonious union in which you both respect and admire the freedom and individuality of the other. You share many interests, including occult and metaphysical subjects. Sometimes this combination indicates a sudden impulsive marriage, but your chances for longevity will only be increased if you take it slowly. If 1982-03-23’s Uranus is afflicted, this combination often indicates an eventual breakup.
Anastasia’s Sun trine 1982-03-23’s Pluto (Strength: +286.6 )

 

 

Conversation between you is stimulating, and you enjoy exchanging ideas. You encourage ambitious pursuits in each other and can be good business partners, especially in the fields of research or promotional activities. 1982-03-23 can reinforce Anastasia’s self-confidence, and Anastasia can provide 1982-03-23 with an outlet for 1982-03-23’s subconscious drives and creativity. There is an element of destiny in this combination, and in a romantic relationship there is also great physical attraction.
Anastasia’s Moon trine 1982-03-23’s Uranus (Strength: +251.2 )

 

 

Your relationship has an unusual quality about it, which you both find very stimulating. 1982-03-23 can help Anastasia in unexpected ways by awakening and inspiring new ideas in Anastasia. Anastasia’s imagination can stimulate 1982-03-23’s originality and versatility. There is certainly a very strong attraction between you, although you may find that circumstances dictate that you be separated from time to time. This is actually the healthiest thing for your relationship–constant excitement and stimulation can itself become boring.
1982-03-23’s Moon square Anastasia’s Uranus (Strength: -199.8 )

 

 

This aspect is a source of irritation in your relationship. Anastasia appears to be constantly changing and unpredictable, which confuses 1982-03-23 and causes emotional upset. Anastasia also appears to be inconsiderate or even unaware of 1982-03-23’s feelings. Your individual career goals may be a source of friction. There is much attraction between you, but oftentimes this aspect indicates that your relationship will be short-lived. In the alternative, you could ease the tension between you by planning voluntary times of separation. If you do not do so, circumstances will arrange them for you.
1982-03-23’s Sun conjunct Anastasia’s Moon (Strength: +168.8 )

 

 

Your personalities are harmonious and you share a mutual affection and understanding. Each of you possesses something of the other’s nature in yourself. There is also a very powerful sexual attraction between you. Anastasia is intuitive and very sensitive when dealing with 1982-03-23. 1982-03-23 is protective of Anastasia. In any relationship, this aspect indicates compatibility and harmony.
1982-03-23’s Sun square Anastasia’s North Node (Strength: -152.2 )

 

 

1982-03-23’s strong will and desire for self-expression can conflict with the sense of timing and propriety of Anastasia. Anastasia may feel that 1982-03-23 is on an ego trip and is ignoring social traditions and standards, while 1982-03-23 may feel that Anastasia lacks the ability to stand up and be heard as an individual rather than blindly following the social norms. This is not usually a serious problem unless the comparison is a negative one overall.
Anastasia’s Mercury sextile 1982-03-23’s Uranus (Strength: +128.0 )

 

 

Anastasia finds 1982-03-23 to be highly stimulating intellectually and very imaginative. Indeed Anastasia can learn a great deal from this relationship. Anastasia could help give the many ideas of 1982-03-23 substance in the real world by giving them practical application. You have a great deal of intuitive communication between you, and this allows you to share each other’s ideas more freely. 1982-03-23 may stimulate Anastasia’s interest in occult or spiritual matters. This is a good combination in an astrologer-client relationship.
1982-03-23’s Sun square Anastasia’s Neptune (Strength: -82.5 )

 

 

This can be a difficult aspect in a close relationship, as there is a natural power conflict. Anastasia will seem elusive, evasive and even deceptive to 1982-03-23, and 1982-03-23 is baffled by Anastasia. There is a mutual lack of trust and frequent misunderstandings. Anastasia can behave in a misleading manner, appearing to be submissive to 1982-03-23 but actually eluding the issue. The relationship may be marked by doubt, confusion, deception and infidelity.
1982-03-23’s Sun sextile Anastasia’s Ascendant (Strength: +61.2 )

 

 

You share mutual goals and can achieve a great deal if you combine your skills and talents in a cooperative effort. You build confidence in each other and encourage creative self-expression. In a romantic relationship, this aspect indicates a strong sexual attraction.
1982-03-23’s Moon square Anastasia’s Ascendant (Strength: -59.4 )

 

 

1982-03-23’s emotional habit patterns and family background conflict with those of Anastasia. You have very different ideas of what is acceptable and desirable in your partnerships. Anastasia seems to repeatedly hurt 1982-03-23’s feelings unintentionally. It is difficult for you to agree on how to handle family and business decisions.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Moon square Anastasia’s Jupiter (Strength: -50.0 )

 

 

In romance this aspect can indicate problems with one or both partner’s family, religious differences or other areas of tension. 1982-03-23 tends to overestimate the promises made by Anastasia and expects too much, therefore becoming set up for disappointment. Also, 1982-03-23 may be tempted to take advantage of Anastasia’s good nature and can make unreasonable demands upon Anastasia. On the other hand, Anastasia sometimes imposes on 1982-03-23. This aspect requires conscious cooperation between the partners.

 

 

Anastasia’s Mars square 1982-03-23’s Neptune (Strength: -42.2 )

 

 

This aspect can be a source of emotional disruption between you. Anastasia is abrupt and impatient; 1982-03-23 is elusive or deceptive in response to Anastasia’s pushiness. It is likely that there will be many misunderstandings and disagreements between you. If 1982-03-23 is very sensitive, Anastasia’s aggression could upset the health of 1982-03-23. This is not a favorable aspect between partners in a love relationship.

 

 

Anastasia’s Jupiter conjunct 1982-03-23’s Uranus (Strength: +32.8 )

 

 

You respect each other’s need for freedom and individuality of expression. Anastasia will encourage 1982-03-23’s originality and inventiveness and can tolerate 1982-03-23’s displays of Uranian independence. There is much mutual inspiration and often a shared interest in metaphysics or occult matters. This is a good contact between the charts of business partners, in which case 1982-03-23 would supply the creative originality and Anastasia the capital to finance development of the ideas. Unlike the sextile or trine, however, the conjunction can produce an out-of-control quality in money matters. If either partner is naturally a gambler, the association will magnify the tendency.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Sun trine Anastasia’s Jupiter (Strength: +31.1 )

 

 

Your relationship is based on mutual encouragement, sympathy, tolerance, generosity, trust, and loyalty. You could bring out the very best qualities in each other, especially if you make a conscious effort to do so. Your relationship will bring mutual growth, both materially and spiritually. No matter what goes wrong between you, the good will always remains. Although this combination is beneficial for both of you, 1982-03-23 will most likely derive the greatest benefit from the association.

 

 

Anastasia’s Venus trine 1982-03-23’s North Node (Strength: +27.7 )

 

 

You can cooperate well and combine your talents and efforts for your mutual benefit. 1982-03-23’s keen sense of current trends and fads can help Anastasia to gain greater public acceptance for Anastasia’s creative expression. With Anastasia’s charm and diplomacy and 1982-03-23’s finger on the pulse of society, you would work well together in advertising and promotion.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Uranus square Anastasia’s Midheaven (Strength: -25.2 )

 

 

This is not a favorable aspect in either personal or professional relationships. 1982-03-23 will seek change and progressive movement in life; Anastasia has a vested interest in maintaining the status quo. 1982-03-23 considers Anastasia overly conservative and boring. Anastasia thinks 1982-03-23 is radical and eccentric.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Sun trine Anastasia’s Uranus (Strength: +24.6 )

 

 

Both partners usually benefit from this combination, especially if they can allow each other plenty of freedom and respect each other’s right to independent expression. There is spiritual harmony, and your association awakens intellectual and creative powers in you both. You always find each other interesting, and life is never boring when you are together. Often this aspect indicates that the relationship will have frequent interruptions involving one party’s absence for long periods of time. But this too can serve to rekindle interest and excitement in the relationship. Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Neptune conjunct Anastasia’s Neptune (Strength: +22.8 )

 

 

This aspect indicates that you share common ideals and many mutual interests, such as in music, drama, poetry, mysticism or psychic phenomena, religion and politics. It can also indicate a mutual tendency toward escapism, especially through drugs. You share this aspect with everyone in your immediate age group.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Moon trine Anastasia’s Saturn (Strength: +22.5 )

 

 

This aspect indicates a favorable give-and-take arrangement whereby Anastasia provides stability and 1982-03-23 in turn enlarges the ideas of Anastasia. Anastasia will be dependable and trustworthy and can counsel 1982-03-23. There is mutual trust and respect here. Anastasia brings out the more conservative qualities in 1982-03-23. You have little difficulty managing money together and, if you have children, you will most likely agree on how to raise them.

 

 

Anastasia’s Moon opposite 1982-03-23’s Mars (Strength: -18.9 )

 

 

This aspect can produce a serious personality conflict. There is a strong attraction and mutual stimulation, but there is an equally strong adverse emotional reaction. 1982-03-23 can be rude or abrupt toward Anastasia, and Anastasia tends to be hypersensitive to the impulsiveness of 1982-03-23’s actions. Some facets of 1982-03-23’s personality may irritate Anastasia, such as a lack of consideration and tolerance. 1982-03-23 needs to practice more self-restraint and patience with Anastasia, who in turn must try not to be so overly sensitive.

 

 

Anastasia’s Venus square 1982-03-23’s Neptune (Strength: -17.8 )

 

 

This is considered an unfavorable aspect in romance and partnership. There usually is attraction, but it is often one-sided. 1982-03-23 may tend to promise more than can be delivered, and Anastasia ends up feeling disappointed. One or both of you can be insincere with the other, and there could be deception and fraud. 1982-03-23 will seem elusive and deceptive to Anastasia, and therefore this will have more adverse effects on the emotions of Anastasia than 1982-03-23. Traditionally, this aspect has indicated infidelity in one or both partners.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Neptune sextile Anastasia’s Pluto (Strength: +16.0 )

 

 

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.

 

 

Anastasia’s Neptune sextile 1982-03-23’s Pluto (Strength: +14.6 )

 

 

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Jupiter conjunct Anastasia’s Saturn (Strength: +14.1 )

 

 

This is a highly favorable aspect in all relationships, particularly in business. Anastasia’s prudence and conservatism blend well with the expansive ability and optimism of 1982-03-23. You can advise each other well and can join efforts with great results. If 1982-03-23 tends to be overconfident or reckless, Anastasia’s influence can be a help rather than a hindrance, as long as Anastasia is careful not to become too critical or cautious and thereby dampen 1982-03-23’s enthusiasm.

 

 

Anastasia’s Sun trine 1982-03-23’s Saturn (Strength: +11.4 )

 

 

You have no trouble agreeing on how to handle your problems and meet your responsibilities. This aspect encourages confidence, enthusiasm, ambition, organization and persistence in you both. This is a very good combination between romantic or business partners and is an indicator of a long-term relationship. 1982-03-23 stabilizes Anastasia, who returns absolute loyalty and reassurance. Anastasia encourages and stimulates 1982-03-23 to act on ideas. Any limitations or restraints that 1982-03-23 may place upon Anastasia usually work out for the ultimate good of both. It also indicates a karmic tie between you.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Uranus conjunct Anastasia’s Uranus (Strength: +10.4 )

 

 

With Uranus in the same sign, you were either born within seven years of each other or about 80-90 years apart. You react in the same way to new inventions, changes in government, music, etc. You have the same definitions of “freedom” and “independence” and have the same understanding of your generation’s urge to achieve self-expression. You also have similar interests and beliefs regarding metaphysics or nontraditional philosophies.

 

 

Anastasia’s Mars trine 1982-03-23’s North Node (Strength: +9.7 )

 

 

Cooperation comes easy for you, whether it’s in business or domestic affairs. Anastasia has a great deal of energy and motivation to initiate projects. 1982-03-23 has a finger on the pulse of society’s fads and trends and can help Anastasia’s projects gain wider public acceptance.

 

 

Anastasia’s Sun square 1982-03-23’s Uranus (Strength: -7.5 )

 

 

Freedom is a problem area in your relationship. Anastasia finds 1982-03-23 to be annoyingly unpredictable, and 1982-03-23 resents Anastasia’s attempts at control and will rebel against any display of power or authority by Anastasia. In extreme cases your conflicts may even become violent. It is difficult to achieve cooperation with this combination, and it often causes conflict and separations. Both of you are impatient with the other and find it difficult to see things from their perspective.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Neptune opposite Anastasia’s North Node (Strength: -7.3 )

 

 

You are both very opinionated about popular music, art and entertainment, and you will not always agree on these subjects. Anastasia may think 1982-03-23 is immature and naive; 1982-03-23 may consider Anastasia to be overly pessimistic and even paranoid.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Mars sextile Anastasia’s Uranus (Strength: +5.5 )

 

 

You stimulate creativity, inventiveness, independence and a sense of adventure in each other. In this way you bring out the best in each other by inspiring confidence and growth. Both of you will benefit from knowing each other. This is also a good combination in business partnerships. 1982-03-23 may have the opportunity to put Anastasia’s ideas into motion.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Mercury square Anastasia’s Uranus (Strength: -4.8 )

 

 

Anastasia is stimulating and intriguing to 1982-03-23, but also may at times be irritating and upsetting. 1982-03-23 may not wish to accept the ideas of Anastasia, who may seem unstable or erratic to 1982-03-23; at the same time 1982-03-23 seems elusive and superficial to Anastasia. This aspect can cause difficulty in relationships and requires considerable understanding and adjustment by both partners. To make things worse, they often share a mutual impatience with the other. There may be much disagreement on unimportant issues. At times 1982-03-23 finds it hard to depend on Anastasia, and this causes 1982-03-23 to become nervous and upset. In some cases disputes may lead to mutual loss of temper and even shouting matches.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Pluto conjunct Anastasia’s Pluto (Strength: +4.6 )

 

 

You are around the same age and have similar experiences of the world. Your ideas and viewpoints have been conditioned in similar directions. Since you share this aspect with everyone close to your age, it is not significant in analyzing compatibility.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Mars trine Anastasia’s Ascendant (Strength: +4.1 )

 

 

You could combine your skills and efforts and work effectively together in business. If you live together, your home life is harmonious and you each respond instantly to an expression of need from the other. There is also a strong sexual attraction between you.

 

 

Anastasia’s Mercury square 1982-03-23’s Pluto (Strength: -3.3 )

 

 

Your experiences together will transform both your lives and will especially stimulate Anastasia’s mind. During conversation Anastasia’s ideas may be transformed by 1982-03-23, and Anastasia may resent being “brainwashed.” You can teach each other a great deal and will broaden each other’s view of the world. The only real danger with this relationship is that the Pluto individual (in this case 1982-03-23) may try to dominate the Mercury individual (or Anastasia). 1982-03-23’s influence on Anastasia is much stronger than Anastasia’s on 1982-03-23, and 1982-03-23 could therefore be ruthless when angered.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Pluto trine Anastasia’s North Node (Strength: +3.1 )

 

 

You have mutual interests and concerns for the current state of society and the planet as a whole. You can help to broaden each other’s perspectives on the world’s problems and gain insight into possible solutions. Since you share common goals, you can also combine your talents to succeed in business together.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Moon conjunct Anastasia’s Midheaven (Strength: +2.8 )

 

 

Anastasia will provide financial security and perhaps social status for 1982-03-23. 1982-03-23 will provide domestic security and a home base of operations for Anastasia. You have similar family backgrounds, and your parents probably wholeheartedly support your union. This aspect is often found between business partners, especially in fields relating to food, farming, real estate, and household goods.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Mars sextile Anastasia’s Jupiter (Strength: +2.6 )

 

 

You have similar aspirations and ambitions and could accomplish a great deal together. You will be helpful and supportive toward each other and any association will result in your mutual benefit. You encourage optimism, ambition and growth in each other and share a love of nature and the outdoors. This aspect is often found between the charts of marriage or business partners.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Pluto trine Anastasia’s Midheaven (Strength: +2.0 )

 

 

You have mutual interests and concerns regarding the current state of society and may even join forces to bring about social reforms. You also share common spiritual and metaphysical beliefs. In surviving as a team you are able to cooperate and combine the best of both your talents and experience.
1982-03-23’s Moon trine Anastasia’s North Node (Strength: +1.8 )

 

 

Anastasia can help 1982-03-23 make difficult social adjustments to fit in with the prevailing trends and social customs. 1982-03-23 will provide support for Anastasia and benefit Anastasia’s social and economic status.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Mercury conjunct Anastasia’s Venus (Strength: +1.6 )

 

 

Your relationship is mutually beneficial and actually brings out the best in each of you. You have many interests in common and are close friends. This is a good aspect between love and marriage partners as well as between parent and child. It ensures mutual sympathy, understanding and affection. 1982-03-23 understands the emotions of Anastasia and is considerate of them. In fact, 1982-03-23 can help Anastasia gain mental insight into Anastasia’s own feelings and emotions. Anastasia in turn can help 1982-03-23 refine the rough edges of 1982-03-23’s writing and speech and therefore help improve 1982-03-23’s communication skills. Each of you supports the other in whatever goals they choose. In marriage, this aspect indicates ease of cooperation in financial matters.

 

 

Anastasia’s Mercury square 1982-03-23’s Jupiter (Strength: -0.9 )

 

 

You find each other to be mutually inspirational. 1982-03-23’s optimism and Anastasia’s mental qualities are a great combination for creative expression by both of you. However, there may be differences of opinion along religious or ethical lines which are irritating to both of you. Anastasia may seem petty at times to 1982-03-23, who in turn may seem to promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious source of conflict if there are many other indications of compatibility in the comparison.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Mercury square Anastasia’s Jupiter (Strength: -0.7 )

 

 

You find each other to be mutually inspirational. Anastasia’s optimism and 1982-03-23’s mental qualities are a great combination for creative expression by both of you. However, there may be differences of opinion along religious or ethical lines which are irritating to both of you. 1982-03-23 may seem petty at times to Anastasia, who in turn may seem to promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious source of conflict if there are many other indications of compatibility in the comparison.

 

 

1982-03-23’s Neptune sextile Anastasia’s Midheaven (Strength: +0.2 )

 

 

This aspect encourages cooperation in professional as well as family affairs. You have an intuitive understanding of and respect for each other’s values, and you agree on such subjects as religion and ethics. 1982-03-23’s intuition and imagination can benefit Anastasia’s career advancement, and Anastasia can provide 1982-03-23 with a secure home or base of operations for 1982-03-23’s own creative expression.

 

 

Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

Communication Index (Harmonious): +2738
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1415
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 1.94
Total Communication Index: 4153

 

1965-02-16 – 1963-04-21 – Star Match Reading – Rising Sign: Unknown

1965-02-16 - 1963-04-21 - star match chart

Introduction

The StarMatch(tm) astrological compatibility report helps you compare two charts by 1) identifying each partner’s emotional needs by describing their Descendant (7th house cusp), Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars; and 2) examining the way their two charts interact. After describing what each partner needs in their love life, the report assesses their interaction by describing the significant aspects between their charts. These aspects identify areas of attraction, harmony, and conflict. The “Strength” noted for each aspect shows its degree of influence on the relationship. The Strength combines the aspect’s closeness of exactitude with its positive or negative value for compatibility purposes. The higher the Strength is, the more strongly the aspect is likely to be felt and acted out in the relationship.
Planets in Signs

1965-02-16’s Sun in Aquarius

As a lover you are very understanding and sympathetic. You are usually able to accept your mate’s flaws and imperfections, but you do have a limit as to what you will tolerate in a relationship. Your personal freedom is very important to you, and if your partner can allow this you will reward him or her with ample love and devotion. It is essential that your mate also be one of your closest friends.

Communication is very important to you in matters of the heart. You feel that with open lines of communication any problems in a relationship can be solved. This is much more important to you, in fact, than sex–and you may find that one cannot exist without the other. You require variety in your sex life and therefore seek a partner who is inventive and open-minded about sex.
1963-04-21’s Sun in Taurus

You are a very good-hearted and generous lover and constantly lavish your lover with affection and gifts. In return, you expect and usually receive great loyalty and devotion. You tend to be stubborn and obstinate at times, and therefore require a partner who is emotionally adaptable. Once you’ve made up your mind, there’s little chance of anyone changing it.

The perfect partner for you enjoys sexual variety, especially if you are fortunate enough to find someone who can constantly introduce you to new and exciting forms of lovemaking. You especially prefer a partner who is overtly affectionate (except in public). If you should feel threatened, you do not become violently jealous, but instead respect your lover’s feelings and approach problems rationally.
1965-02-16’s Moon in Virgo

You have specific requirements for a lover and will be very cautious in selecting one. You are also particular about the environment and circumstances in which you make love and are not likely to engage in sex just anywhere or with just anyone. Unless you can feel comfortable, you will not relax and let go in a romantic situation.

It is important to you that your lover be faithful, and you should let them know this. There is nothing wrong with letting your needs be known–as a matter of fact, it is important. Just don’t overdo it and become compulsively possessive. You can be of great assistance to your partner in times of need; just be sure your advice is welcomed before you give it, otherwise it will not be heard.
1963-04-21’s Moon in Pisces

It may appear to others that you are emotionally unsteady–since you are subject to mood swings in relationships. With time and maturity this will be resolved. A secure, long-term relationship is what you seek; this allows you to adjust to your mate and settle in as his/her partner. For this reason, you are attracted to lovers who are more stable than you. They will understand your emotional wavering and love you as you are.

Your emotions are intense and well-developed. When choosing a mate the inner person interests you much more than the outer trappings. You are able to see into your lover’s heart and detect qualities that others do not recognize. Your friends may even question your choice of partners.
1965-02-16’s Mercury in Aquarius

You have a very sharp and inventive mind, and your ideas may seem outrageous to others. You find scientific and metaphysical studies to be intellectually invigorating, and you would prefer a partner who shares these interests (or at least doesn’t criticize your beliefs).

Sexual experimentation comes naturally to you, and you will approach it carefully and cautiously, almost scientifically. Stimulation of your mind is at least as important as arousal of your body, and you need a partner who can turn you on intellectually. You are very eclectic in your approach to lovemaking and offer your partner a constantly changing sexual repertoire. For this reason you are usually an excellent lover.
1963-04-21’s Mercury in Taurus

You are a romantic at heart and pay careful attention to detail and the physical setting for lovemaking. In order to heighten enjoyment, you will make sure the surroundings are sensual and lush. Whether it takes place on a thick growth of clover in a meadow or on a velvet bedspread in your bedroom, you want everything about sex to be enjoyable.

Just be sure you don’t miss some truly magical moments while you’re busy preparing for that perfect setting. Some things are most enjoyable when they are experienced spontaneously. Most people are not immediately aware of the level of your passion, since you are likely to repress it if you do not believe others will approve. You need a partner who will appreciate your direct, forceful approach to love.
1965-02-16’s Venus in Aquarius

In your love relationships you prefer a partner who is unique and a little off-beat by society’s standards. You need a lover who can respect your need for personal freedom and your own individual identity. Because you are so afraid of being tied down, it is difficult for you to establish and maintain long-term love relationships.

You are rebellious and “negatively suggestible” in your love affairs. That is, the best way to get you to do something is to demand that you do just the opposite. You can be extremely stubborn at times and can turn ice cold when you are hurt. Once you have committed yourself to a partner, you are loyal and truthful and are willing to extend the same personal freedom to your lover that you desire.
1963-04-21’s Venus in Pisces

Sensitivity and compassion are qualities that you appreciate in a lover. You especially would like to have a lover who can intuit your needs psychically so that you don’t even have to articulate them. But be realistic–your partner doesn’t have a crystal ball. Be willing to communicate directly at least part of the time.

You may carry karmic baggage from other lives, and this placement has produced many martyrs and sacrificial lambs. Your partner should be someone you feel you can truly trust, because you are prone to becoming a victim in matters of the heart. You are a tender and sensitive lover, and you seek spiritual rather than just sexual union with your mate.
1965-02-16’s Mars in Virgo

You are a very careful and meticulous lover and will make sure that the surroundings and atmosphere are perfect for yourself and your partner. Although you are somewhat slow to arouse sexually, you go out of your way to please your lover, employing superior technique, sensitivity and attention to detail.

You are very discriminating when choosing a mate, and you should avoid a tendency to become overly critical. Personal hygiene and a healthy lifestyle are very important to you, and it would be best if your partner shares these values. You are a hard worker and must remember to find time for relaxation in order to avoid stress-related illnesses.
1963-04-21’s Mars in Leo

You are a warm, loyal and open lover and are extremely generous with your partner. You don’t have much patience for elaborate courting rituals, but you are a very attentive lover once the ice has been broken. You will go to extreme lengths to make your lovemaking sessions perfect and to be creative in the bedroom. Be sure not to steal the show, though; let your partner come up with his or her own ideas.

Mars in Leo gives you the gift of being able to make any love affair or romantic situation a magical one. You treat your lover like royalty, and you are very pleased if they return the favor. Most of all, your partner must respect you and allow you to maintain your dignity (the famous Leo pride). You would not be happy, for instance, with someone who was obnoxious or otherwise embarrassed you in public.
Planets in Aspect

1965-02-16’s Mercury square 1963-04-21’s Mercury (Strength: -408.3 )

There is a tendency here to criticize each other. This combination can be difficult to work with in romance unless other aspects provide the missing element of companionship. There is a danger of disagreements and misunderstandings– and of course this is exacerbated by one or both partners taking a stubborn position. You must each learn to compromise with the other in order to achieve harmony.
1965-02-16’s Venus square 1963-04-21’s Neptune (Strength: -294.0 )

This is considered an unfavorable aspect in romance and partnership. There usually is attraction, but it is often one-sided. 1963-04-21 may tend to promise more than can be delivered, and 1965-02-16 ends up feeling disappointed. One or both of you can be insincere with the other, and there could be deception and fraud. 1963-04-21 will seem elusive and deceptive to 1965-02-16, and therefore this will have more adverse effects on the emotions of 1965-02-16 than 1963-04-21. Traditionally, this aspect has indicated infidelity in one or both partners.
1963-04-21’s Mercury opposite 1965-02-16’s Neptune (Strength: -294.0 )

This aspect indicates frequent misunderstandings and even possibly deception, especially by 1965-02-16. At the very least, there will be many secrets that 1965-02-16 will not share with 1963-04-21. It’s possible you may out and out lie to each other, or that more subtle forms of deception will be practiced. 1963-04-21 is often at a loss to understand 1965-02-16, and 1965-02-16 may seem distant or detached to 1963-04-21. This combination is more difficult on 1963-04-21 than 1965-02-16. In a business relationship there is a danger of fraud.
1963-04-21’s Mercury conjunct 1965-02-16’s Jupiter (Strength: +220.3 )

You find each other to be mutually inspirational. 1965-02-16’s optimism and 1963-04-21’s mental qualities are a great combination for creative expression by both of you. This is a good aspect in all relationships, including parent-child, student-teacher, husband-wife, or in business partners. 1963-04-21 provides the reason and 1965-02-16 the ideals and visions, and this results in much spiritual growth for both of you. 1965-02-16 is tolerant of 1963-04-21’s most far out ideas and will inspire 1963-04-21’s interest in higher education.
1965-02-16’s Sun sextile 1963-04-21’s Sun (Strength: +144.7 )

Your temperaments adjust easily to each other, and your personalities naturally harmonize. There is much mutual sympathy and understanding, as well as support in achieving common ideals or goals. This is a positive aspect between any two charts, especially those of marriage partners. There is much compatibility and mutual respect.
1963-04-21’s Moon opposite 1965-02-16’s Mars (Strength: -138.9 )

This aspect can produce a serious personality conflict. There is a strong attraction and mutual stimulation, but there is an equally strong adverse emotional reaction. 1965-02-16 can be rude or abrupt toward 1963-04-21, and 1963-04-21 tends to be hypersensitive to the impulsiveness of 1965-02-16’s actions. Some facets of 1965-02-16’s personality may irritate 1963-04-21, such as a lack of consideration and tolerance. 1965-02-16 needs to practice more self-restraint and patience with 1963-04-21, who in turn must try not to be so overly sensitive.
1963-04-21’s Saturn square 1965-02-16’s Neptune (Strength: -95.7 )

1963-04-21 will consider 1965-02-16 to be aloof and evasive, while 1965-02-16 will find 1963-04-21 to be restrictive and limiting. There is much danger of misunderstanding and deception on both your parts. 1963-04-21 will seem selfish and domineering to 1965-02-16, while 1965-02-16 will seem ineffectual and a “loser” to 1963-04-21. It is likely that 1965-02-16 will usually be the one to make concessions in order to keep the peace. This is an unfavorable aspect between persons in a financial or political relationship.
1965-02-16’s Uranus sextile 1963-04-21’s Neptune (Strength: +91.8 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. You share a mutual interest in occult, mystic or psychic matters. There is also a similarity in your social or political views. 1965-02-16 can inspire 1963-04-21 to express creativity in new and innovative ways, while 1963-04-21 can contribute vision and compassion to 1965-02-16’s outlook on life.
1965-02-16’s Sun opposite 1963-04-21’s Uranus (Strength: -88.4 )

Freedom is a problem area in your relationship. 1965-02-16 finds 1963-04-21 to be annoyingly unpredictable, and 1963-04-21 resents 1965-02-16’s attempts at control and will rebel against any display of power or authority by 1965-02-16. It is difficult to achieve cooperation with this combination, and it often causes conflict and separations. Both of you are impatient with the other and find it difficult to see things from their perspective.
1963-04-21’s Neptune sextile 1965-02-16’s Pluto (Strength: +75.0 )

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.
1963-04-21’s Sun trine 1965-02-16’s Moon (Strength: +73.5 )

Your personalities are harmonious and you share a mutual affection and understanding. Each of you possesses something of the other’s nature in yourself. 1965-02-16 is intuitive and very sensitive when dealing with 1963-04-21. 1963-04-21 is protective of 1965-02-16. In any relationship, this aspect indicates compatibility and harmony.
1963-04-21’s Saturn trine 1965-02-16’s North Node (Strength: +64.8 )

You share similar concerns regarding the current state of society, the economy and politics. In business you would be able to combine 1963-04-21’s planning abilities and 1965-02-16’s insight into current trends to achieve success for you both.

1965-02-16’s Mercury conjunct 1963-04-21’s Saturn (Strength: +58.8 )

1963-04-21’s effect on 1965-02-16 is much stronger than the other way around. 1965-02-16 can learn much from 1963-04-21, who is probably older or more experienced and has more wisdom to offer. 1963-04-21 can be discouraging and often too critical of 1965-02-16’s ideas, judgment or accomplishments, causing 1965-02-16 to feel inadequate and inferior. 1965-02-16 can encourage 1963-04-21 to leave behind negative attitudes or worries, which will help 1963-04-21 to grow.

1963-04-21’s Venus opposite 1965-02-16’s Mars (Strength: +57.5 )

There is an intense physical attraction between you, although this attraction alone is no guarantee of a harmonious, enduring relationship. 1963-04-21 finds 1965-02-16 to be exciting and desirable; however, 1963-04-21 will vigorously resist 1965-02-16’s attempts to dominate the relationship. You must resist being possessive and jealous with each other and instead make a conscious effort to be reasonable and understanding. 1965-02-16 must avoid being overly aggressive, and 1963-04-21 must avoid being overly sensitive. Strive to achieve harmony in financial matters. Otherwise, resentment and possibly conflict will result. The attraction between you is strong; you must provide the cooperative spirit.

1965-02-16’s Mars sextile 1963-04-21’s North Node (Strength: +44.9 )

Cooperation comes easy for you, whether it’s in business or domestic affairs. 1965-02-16 has a great deal of energy and motivation to initiate projects. 1963-04-21 has a finger on the pulse of society’s fads and trends and can help 1965-02-16’s projects gain wider public acceptance.

1965-02-16’s Jupiter square 1963-04-21’s Saturn (Strength: -29.3 )

This aspect indicates disagreement on financial or business matters. 1963-04-21 will criticize, limit or place too much burden on 1965-02-16. 1965-02-16 needs to grow and expand and will feel restricted or frustrated by 1963-04-21. 1963-04-21 may be unjust or selfish at times and may even undermine the confidence of 1965-02-16 (consciously or unconsciously). If 1965-02-16 has strong ethical and moral beliefs, the experience of relating to 1963-04-21 will test them. In some cases this can strengthen such beliefs, but only by provoking an inner struggle.

1965-02-16’s Venus opposite 1963-04-21’s Mars (Strength: +22.6 )

There is an intense physical attraction between you, although this attraction alone is no guarantee of a harmonious, enduring relationship. 1965-02-16 finds 1963-04-21 to be exciting and desirable; however, 1965-02-16 will vigorously resist 1963-04-21’s attempts to dominate the relationship. You must resist being possessive and jealous with each other and instead make a conscious effort to be reasonable and understanding. 1963-04-21 must avoid being overly aggressive, and 1965-02-16 must avoid being overly sensitive. Strive to achieve harmony in financial matters. Otherwise, resentment and possibly conflict will result. The attraction between you is strong; you must provide the cooperative spirit.

1965-02-16’s Saturn opposite 1963-04-21’s Pluto (Strength: -19.2 )

1963-04-21, as the reformer and transformer, challenges 1965-02-16’s attitudes toward life’s responsibilities. If the bulk of the comparison is positive, this aspect will represent a mild test. If there are many negative aspects, it can increase resentment and even lead to hatefulness. This aspect is especially troublesome between parents and children. 1963-04-21 may be tempted to play on 1965-02-16’s fears. 1965-02-16 may try to restrict 1963-04-21’s freedom.

1965-02-16’s Jupiter opposite 1963-04-21’s Neptune (Strength: -18.8 )

You have many differences in ethical and religious beliefs. 1963-04-21 will seem elusive, thus making 1965-02-16 feel uncomfortable about trusting 1963-04-21. Indeed, it is likely that 1965-02-16’s confidence in 1963-04-21 will be tested through this relationship. 1963-04-21 may be tempted to cheat or deceive 1965-02-16, and this can be a problem if 1963-04-21 is naturally disposed to secretiveness. This aspect is to be avoided in business or romance unless there are many other positive aspects which indicate much mutual respect and confidence. In that case, this aspect may be nothing more than a minor irritation over your differences in opinion.

1963-04-21’s Mercury trine 1965-02-16’s Mars (Strength: +17.6 )

1965-02-16 stimulates the intellect, ideas and self-expression of 1963-04-21. You share mutual interests and can help each other to achieve your highest goals in life. 1965-02-16 encourages 1963-04-21 to act on ideas and provides the incentive to pursue goals and ambitions. 1963-04-21 inspires greater awareness and learning in 1965-02-16. You could be successful in business projects you undertake together.

1963-04-21’s Mercury trine 1965-02-16’s Pluto (Strength: +17.1 )

Your experiences together will transform both your lives and will especially stimulate 1963-04-21’s mind. 1965-02-16’s influence on 1963-04-21 is stronger than 1963-04-21’s on 1965-02-16. 1965-02-16 can help 1963-04-21 to deepen perceptions of the occult and psychic realms. 1963-04-21 can help 1965-02-16 verbalize and communicate these deep insights. You can teach each other a great deal and will broaden each other’s view of the world.

1965-02-16’s Saturn opposite 1963-04-21’s Uranus (Strength: -13.5 )

1963-04-21 can stimulate 1965-02-16 but can also have a disorganizing effect upon 1965-02-16’s goals and efforts. 1965-02-16 wants stability, but 1963-04-21 wants change. To 1965-02-16, 1963-04-21 seems undependable, erratic and unstable. 1965-02-16’s hesitancy or over-caution can irk 1963-04-21. 1965-02-16 will delay 1963-04-21’s progress or restrict 1963-04-21’s freedom of expression. 1963-04-21 will rebel against such restrictions. Although there are problems of adjustment, the association provides much opportunity for spiritual growth.

1965-02-16’s Moon conjunct 1963-04-21’s Uranus (Strength: +10.1 )

This is a very stimulating aspect, and between partners in a romantic relationship it indicates an immediate mutual attraction. It arouses romantic feelings in you both, and the time you spend together is very exciting. However, unless there are many other harmonious aspects which bind you, the constant excitement between you may become irritating. Although you may initially be fascinated with each other, the relationship may not be long lasting unless there are other aspects which indicate endurability. If the comparison is a good one overall, this aspect will ensure that romance and excitement between you will stay alive long after others have fallen into a rut. If 1965-02-16 is overly sensitive, 1963-04-21’s qualities and habits may be upsetting to 1965-02-16. In marriage this aspect can indicate frequent changes of residence, which could be disturbing to the Moon individual, in this case 1965-02-16.

1965-02-16’s Uranus conjunct 1963-04-21’s Pluto (Strength: +9.0 )

This contact can be either positive or negative, depending on the overall balance of aspects in the relationship. If the comparison is positive overall, you are likely to use this aspect as an opportunity for personal growth and transformation. In this case 1965-02-16 can provide 1963-04-21 with new insights and ways of thinking, while 1963-04-21 can help 1965-02-16 to assert 1965-02-16’s individuality more effectively in life. If the comparison is already a difficult one, this aspect will be expressed as power plays and manipulative “games.” In this case, the Pluto person, 1963-04-21, may attempt to control or manipulate the Uranus individual, 1965-02-16, who will resist such efforts vigorously. There may also be difficulty adjusting to each other sexually.

1965-02-16’s Neptune trine 1963-04-21’s North Node (Strength: +6.6 )

You share many common social beliefs and enjoy the same type of art, music and other forms of entertainment. 1965-02-16 can help 1963-04-21 to be more intuitively aware of the simple pleasures in life. 1963-04-21 can help 1965-02-16 to succeed in 1965-02-16’s artistic expression and gain greater public acceptance.

1965-02-16’s Sun conjunct 1963-04-21’s Saturn (Strength: -6.3 )

1963-04-21 slows 1965-02-16 down and reminds 1965-02-16 of duties and responsibilities and sometimes may be a bit critical. 1965-02-16 encourages and vitalizes 1963-04-21 and alleviates worries, fears and negative mental patterns of 1963-04-21. 1963-04-21 depends on 1965-02-16 for inspiration and sometimes passes on responsibilities to 1965-02-16. 1965-02-16 will be tolerant and forgiving of 1963-04-21. In love and marriage, this aspect often occurs between people who have a wide difference in age and/or experience.

1965-02-16’s Sun square 1963-04-21’s Mercury (Strength: -6.2 )

Your interests in life conflict and you have very different ideals. It is difficult for you to reach agreement because you don’t trust each other’s judgment (although you may never say so). 1963-04-21 can be insincere or evasive toward 1965-02-16. 1965-02-16 may patronize 1963-04-21 or ignore 1963-04-21’s ideas and creative efforts. Both of you must be willing to compromise if you are going to relate satisfactorily.

1963-04-21’s Mercury trine 1965-02-16’s Uranus (Strength: +6.1 )

1963-04-21 finds 1965-02-16 to be highly stimulating mentally and imaginative. Indeed 1963-04-21 can learn a great deal from this relationship. 1963-04-21 could help give the many ideas of 1965-02-16 substance in the real world by giving them practical application. You have a great deal of intuitive communication between you, and this allows you to share each other’s ideas more freely. 1965-02-16 may stimulate 1963-04-21’s interest in occult or spiritual matters. This is a good combination in an astrologer-client relationship.

1963-04-21’s Sun sextile 1965-02-16’s Saturn (Strength: +3.8 )

You have no trouble agreeing on how to handle your problems and meet your responsibilities. This combination encourages confidence, enthusiasm, ambition, organization and persistence in you both. This is a very good combination between romantic or business partners and is an indicator of a long-term relationship. 1965-02-16 stabilizes 1963-04-21, who returns absolute loyalty and reassurance. 1963-04-21 encourages and stimulates 1965-02-16 to act on ideas. Any limitations or restraints that 1965-02-16 may place upon 1963-04-21 usually work out for the ultimate good of both. It also indicates a karmic tie between you.

1963-04-21’s Mercury square 1965-02-16’s Venus (Strength: -3.3 )

Although this aspect does not present insurmountable problems, there will be many minor irritations between you, especially if you are very close friends or lovers. 1963-04-21 may be insensitive to the emotional needs of 1965-02-16 and may seem cold and calculating at times. If the comparison is basically a positive one, this aspect is not difficult to overcome.

1965-02-16’s Neptune conjunct 1963-04-21’s Neptune (Strength: +2.3 )

This aspect indicates that you share common ideals and many mutual interests, such as in music, drama, poetry, mysticism or psychic phenomena, religion and politics. It can also indicate a mutual tendency toward escapism, especially through drugs. You share this aspect with everyone in your immediate age group.

1963-04-21’s Moon trine 1965-02-16’s Neptune (Strength: +2.2 )

You are unusually sensitive to each other’s moods and feelings and have a strong psychic tie between you–even to the point of being able to telepathically communicate. This aspect indicates much mutual sympathy and inspiration; there is also the likelihood of spiritual and philosophical agreement. You are comforting and supportive of each other. This combination brings out any latent interest in the occult or psychic abilities in each of you.

1963-04-21’s Moon square 1965-02-16’s North Node (Strength: -1.7 )

1963-04-21’s family background and emotional conditioning are incompatible with 1965-02-16’s idea of proper social and cultural behavior. You have very different attitudes about what is appropriate, or even ethical, behavior.

1963-04-21’s Venus trine 1965-02-16’s Neptune (Strength: +1.3 )

This aspect indicates that you share mutual sympathy, generosity, kindness, tenderness, compassion and consideration. You are quite affectionate and devoted to one another and have a strong spiritual connection. You enjoy many mutual interests, especially in art, music, dance, poetry, etc. There is also a mutual interest in spirituality or occult matters, and you are able to help each other develop on this level. In fact, this mutual interest may be what brought you together originally.

1963-04-21’s Mars square 1965-02-16’s Jupiter (Strength: -1.2 )

This aspect indicates a clash of ambitions, morals and ethics. You may compete with each other, or one of you will push the other against their will. There is a tendency to be impatient or demand too much of each other. 1965-02-16 may promise more to 1963-04-21 than is possible to fulfill, although 1965-02-16’s intentions are the best. At times it may seem you bring out the worst in each other. You must develop respect for one another and plan carefully together if you are to achieve harmony.

1965-02-16’s Pluto conjunct 1963-04-21’s Pluto (Strength: +0.9 )

You are around the same age and have similar experiences of the world. Your ideas and viewpoints have been conditioned in similar directions. Since you share this aspect with everyone close to your age, it is not significant in analyzing compatibility.

1965-02-16’s Moon conjunct 1963-04-21’s Pluto (Strength: -0.7 )

This aspect can be very good or very bad, depending on the overall balance of positive vs. negative in the comparison. 1963-04-21 can enlarge 1965-02-16’s concepts and ideas and stimulate 1965-02-16’s imagination. Or, in a more negative comparison, 1963-04-21 can arouse 1965-02-16’s deepest fears and insecurities and cause 1965-02-16 to reject 1963-04-21. 1963-04-21 can be jealous and possessive and may try to dominate 1965-02-16 and attempt to change 1965-02-16’s inner nature. This aspect also indicates sexual attraction.

1963-04-21’s Venus square 1965-02-16’s North Node (Strength: -0.7 )

There are major differences in your lifestyles which can result in frequent disagreements between you and threaten emotional compatibility. You find it difficult to agree on what constitutes acceptable social behavior, good taste in fashion, or politics.

1965-02-16’s Mercury square 1963-04-21’s Neptune (Strength: -0.5 )

This aspect indicates frequent misunderstandings and even possibly deception, especially by 1963-04-21. At the very least, there will be many secrets that 1963-04-21 will not share with 1965-02-16. It’s possible you may out and out lie to each other, or that more subtle forms of deception will be practiced. 1965-02-16 is often at a loss to understand 1963-04-21, and 1963-04-21 may seem distant or detached to 1965-02-16. This combination is more difficult on 1965-02-16 than 1963-04-21. In a business relationship there is a danger of fraud.

Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

Communication Index (Harmonious): +1294
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1798
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): .72
Total Communication Index: 3092

1965-02-16 – 1963-04-21 – Couple Composite Reading – Rising Sign: Unknown

1965-02-16 - 1963-04-21 - couple composite chart

1965-02-16
Tuesday, February 16, 1965 12:00:00 PM
Unknown birth time.
Unknown birth city, Unknown birth state
Time Zone: 00:00 (UT)
Longitude: 000° W 00′
Latitude: 00° N 00′

1963-04-21
Sunday, April 21, 1963 12:00:00 PM
Unknown birth time.
Unknown birth city, Unknown birth state
Time Zone: 00:00 (UT)
Longitude: 000° W 00′
Latitude: 00° N 00′

Introduction

Each of us has a personal birth chart that records where the planets were at the time when we were born. As long as we are lone individuals, we are stuck with that chart. The placements and aspects of our natal birth chart will define our potential as individuals for the rest of our lives. Furthermore, the possible aspects and possible alignments of the planets in our birth chart are limited by where the planets actually were around the time when we were born. It is not possible to have Jupiter conjunct Saturn in our birth charts when Jupiter and Saturn were on opposite sides of the solar system.

All of those limitations disappear when it comes to the composite chart between two people. Through the magic of two people’s charts coming together and combining, almost any combination, almost any destiny, is possible. By unifying with another person, the two of you can have a greater capacity to channel the planetary energies in a desired direction than was possible for either one of you alone. The two of you do have to submerge your individual egos to the extent necessary to form a partnership, but as long as the two of you remain linked as partners in that team, the planetary energies of its composite chart are at the disposal of both of you.

We may think that we are in charge when it comes to selecting another person to be our mate, but I am not so sure that is always the case. Some composite charts have so many synchronicities, so many close alignments of multiple planets, that they appear to be alchemical experiments orchestrated by Fate from the Other Side. In particular, I have seen these close linkages in the composite charts of certain couples whose lives have received intense media exposure, as if the lives of these couples were meant to be teaching tools.

The composite chart of Prince Charles and Princess Diana is a perfect example of a composite chart that featured multiple exact planet linkages. Two planets are at 5 degrees, two planets are at 16 degrees, two planets are at 17 degrees, almost conjunct the Midheaven at 18 degrees, four planets are at 26 degrees and the remaining planet is at 27 degrees. These linkages channeled the couple’s behavior during their short marriage to an extreme degree. The composite charts of the former President of Argentina, Juan Perón, with his two successive wives, Evita and Isabel, show such striking similarities that the astrologer must conclude that Juan Perón was truly a Man of Destiny.

I have also seen in composite charts between members of the same family some very interesting chart patterns that repeat or alternate, indicating that these souls were brought together in order to work on similar life lessons.

You may or may not have amazingly synchronized linkages with your partner, but you can be sure that you picked each other because subconsciously you detected that the interaction between the two of you had an interesting quality to it. You felt like what was created when the two of you came together was something larger than yourself, was something that provided room for you to grow, and finally was a direction in which you wanted to grow.

The interpretations that follow of the planetary placements and aspects in the composite chart for you and your partner will describe the nature of the relationship environment in which you and your partner have your being. It should not come as a big surprise to you, since you have actually been living the life that it describes, but it should help you to be more conscious about your relationship and it may validate some of your unconscious perceptions. Some placements and aspects are mostly harmonious – you know that you have support in those areas. Other placements and aspects challenge you to work and try harder to get the desired response – these are actually the growth opportunities that attracted you to this relationship. If your relationship ever became ‘perfect’ you would quickly get bored and would want more challenge. That is just part of human nature. We want to feel needed and we want to keep growing.
Combined Planets in the Houses

Sun in the Tenth House

A sense of destiny pervades your pairing. It is not that you feel you have entered into a zone of déjà vu, but more that fate has introduced you in order to accomplish a definite purpose. Even if your relationship is not new but cements a familiar partnership, you will feel the anticipation and excitement of something “different” that puts success within your reach.

Your association will probably encourage you to combine careers since, as a team, you project the image that you are a power to be reckoned with. This will be most evident if you come to the attention of the public in some manner.

If yours is not a love connection, you will still bond with warm personal feelings. In disputes, take care not to disturb your stability, but you should not ignore any real emotional differences or problems.

You will undoubtedly complete whatever project you begin. Each time, you will have the enormous satisfaction of attaining mutual achievement to boost your appreciation of your valuable alliance.
Moon in the Twelfth House

With this placement, you are capable of being true soul mates – it depends on your honesty and ability as individuals to let yourselves be vulnerable. If neither of you is hiding from the other, you can be true partners.

Consider a retreat in which you can settle down, relax and take a second look at the issues that bother you the most. Complete repose may let you discover hidden depths of yourself in a period of meditation and reflections that challenge you to find the true meaning of your pairing. As a couple, you may wish to join a group of soul-seekers in an effort to raise your consciousness above the mundane matters that weigh you down.

The most significant minus in your relationship is that you may not feel like doing any or all of the above. Low self-esteem may prevent you from being honest with each other; next to impossible if you do not first submit to an honest assessment of who you are as individuals.

On a broader scale, the discomfort that you feel in a personal relationship can be disastrous in a business venture when harmony and trust figure into your success equation. Then, there is an inherent need for a realistic appraisal of what you can expect of your union. Can you accept that what you fantasize may not agree with its true potential?
Mercury in the Tenth House

By now, you should think you know what you want and how to achieve it. A partnership may somehow enhance your chances of getting it! However, even if you had a set of personal goals before forming your liaison, you may change your ideas and elevate your sights when you invite the views of others.

Certainly, your team will experience a mutual growth even if one of you provides building blocks that the other will use as stepping stones to gain the spotlight of success.

It is entirely possible that you will receive the notice of the public, for you enjoy the attention of others. This is not to say that every road will be an easy one, but through careful planning, you should be able to put your heads together and take the right direction towards your objectives.

One of the great benefits of your pairing, either for romance or for business, is that every day will seem like a new day. Each achievement will inspire you to expand your potential further. You are truly blessed and you know it – which often makes you popular role models. Given a little encouragement, you will share your accomplishments by advising enthusiastically to “Go and do likewise.”
Venus in the Eleventh House

It is almost as though you have come together to fulfill each other’s dreams. Others are well aware of your perfect pairing.

You complement each other and are gracious hosts in any gathering you plan. You are a “golden” couple and are welcome guests when you attend the many functions to which you are invited.

As business partners, you are usually in sync, maintaining a balance as a team that helps to eliminate confusion in every-day decisions. It is nearly unthinkable that either of you would do anything to undermine the trust you have in your partner. You respect each other too much to damage your relationship with underhanded tactics.

Such faith allows you to be yourself even if you differ greatly from your partner. You are not, after all, clones of each other, but are entitled to your own opinions and the manner in which you live your life. This kind of understanding does not leave much room for jealousies or suspicions that sometimes invade an otherwise happy pairing.

Never question that your love for each other and the success you can achieve is too good to be true. You have found and can sustain the real thing.

The second half of this report will give the meaning of any aspects that exist in the composite chart involving Venus. You must combine this house placement interpretation with those Venus aspect interpretations, as they will modulate the planet’s expression in this house.
Mars in the Ninth House

Development of your individual philosophies within the structure of your partnership is paramount for your team. If your philosophies are like-minded, you are bound to mesh well.

You have an enthusiasm to learn and expand your ideas that often draws you into travel or contact with exotic places. If you do not already have international or exotic backgrounds, your pairing will tend to lead you in this direction. You may convince others of the validity of your ideas, but patience is not your greatest strength. Learn to listen as well as to talk. Otherwise, personal pride may turn beneficial discussions into arguments.

Treading on toes in either a business or a personal climate can provoke misunderstandings. You may long for home where you understand basic rules and are sure of agreement. Nevertheless, there you will be as far from your goals as you were when expectations were still high.

You may find it necessary to be nontraditional in your relationship, switching traditional male and female roles or allowing unusual freedom. This may not agree with how you were raised or what you expected to find in a relationship. Accept that both of you have unique minds and enjoy challenges. Figure out the roles in your relationship that will allow each of you to do what he or she does best.
Jupiter in the Tenth House

Although you stand an excellent chance of achieving the high goals you have set, be careful that others do not see you as expecting too much too soon. There is no room for duplicities or cover-ups here. While you may achieve fame as well as fortune, you must also be prepared for the notoriety that often accompanies it – there are few places where you can hide that bright light of yours under a bushel.

Though you find life at the top fits as naturally as the hard work that put you there, don’t let any adulation that follows go to your head. The dizziness of your accomplishments can fill you with an enthusiasm that others may interpret as a form of braggadocio, making you hard to live with. If recognition is due your partner, be sure that you give credit for at least half of your success. If you include and bolster each other in your plans, your zeal will rub off and send you soaring to new heights. Consider that, as you gain the spotlight, others are watching. Negative impressions will be hard to undo. It is up to you to create your own image. You can do it and do it well!
Saturn in the Ninth House

A benefit of this relationship is the constructive criticism that you give to each other. You could love the other for helping you to grow into your mature self. You feel like stretching your capabilities. You could both pleasantly surprise your doubting parents. Your relationship probably involves a lot of worldly activity, perhaps to do with traveling, the outdoors, sports, the arts, publishing, or the law. It is healthier for the relationship if you do these things together, but at least the relationship should not stifle or restrict you from engaging in such activities on your own. The main conflict in this generally positive placement is that between freedom and control. However, we find that balance as we mature, and this placement is all about maturation.
Uranus in the Third House

An element of rebellion could have brought you together – a determination to do your own thing, despite what your relatives want. The attraction could have been immediate. You were attracted to each other’s charisma. The relationship is mentally stimulating, liberating, and emancipating for you, such as in outgrowing repressive expectations from your youth. The placement helps to keep you from getting bored with each other.
Neptune in the Fifth House

This is a positive placement for Neptune. You have a loving connection with each other. You had a romantic courtship. You sense each other’s moods and are there if comfort is needed. You make each other laugh. You can talk for hours about everything. You are optimistic about your future together.
Pluto in the Third House

This placement refines and deepens your thoughts and activities. It can make you active in community affairs or politics. You may have unconventional or radical views on social reform. You are good at seeing and telling the candid truth about yourselves. You are clear about each other’s roles. Continual trips or business could both enliven your relationship and put a strain on it. Fighting actually clears the air between you, after which you quickly make up. Nevertheless, watch out for a tendency to needle each other. You can defuse the anger and preserve your relationship by maintaining your love life with each other. This is one of the better placements for a relationship. You deepen your minds by exploring intellectual or future-related subjects together. You could both contribute your time and energy to charitable activities.
Planets in Aspect

Moon square Pluto (Strength: 5.53)

By hook or by crook, this relationship will help trim away the worst of your bad emotional habits and laziness. It will be an incredible growth experience. You may have to go through some pain, but at the end of it, you will be tough, not childishly feeling sorry for yourself. You will have encountered the deep forces that make the world go around and possibly learned to align yourself with them. Not only can this composite aspect help to clean you out, but also if you stick with it then together you will become fearless and have wisdom beyond your years.

You see in each other the potential for a deep emotional connection and you seek to access the power inherent in that depth of experience. There is likely a deep urge to lose yourself in your partner without losing your own sense of control or of self. You want to dive into the relationship, but you are still afraid of the potential death of your own individuality. This creates a power struggle within you as well as within your relationship that will involve a lot of negative emotions and energies, including a tendency to try to dominate one or the other of you.

If there is a lot of love between you in an intimate relationship, then you will have to relate to each other without trying to manipulate or control. The depth of feelings present in your relationship can be seen as fated in nature. The psychological and emotional energies between you are so intense that you may only be able to handle them for so many years. But echoing Ecclesiastes, to every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.

Use this relationship to work on yourself, rather than on your partner. Give each other breathing room, as this is an intense process and there will be much healing going on. Feel free to ask for help in your process. A therapist can be valuable as a guide. Also ask for guidance from spiritual light sources such as guardian angels, spirit guides, or whatever feels right to you, as a balance against any dark energies that come up. Through this process, you can learn to balance and control some of the powerful energies and emotions that previously were too much for you to handle. As you do this, you will each grow and become better human beings.
Venus trine Pluto (Strength: 5.12)

The power of love flows between you. Yours is a powerful relationship filled with intense emotions. You love each other deeply, but more than that you love the emotion itself. Together you bask in the feelings of giving and receiving love. You feel immersed and wallow in the beautiful intensity of your feelings for each other. This is a spiritual connection that you express in a very physical way. You come together as one being, and the love that you feel for each other is more transcendent and regenerative than most human love. It is a vehicle for transformation as you intuitively feel the spiritual depth and connection with your partner.

The primary way that you express your love for each other is through the power of physical sex. The sensual pleasure involved and the powerful orgasmic release touch you at a deep psychological level. This relationship helps to give you the strength to contact your deepest, hidden emotions. Sex is a process of two people merging physically and emotionally in a single relationship. It is a process that appeals to your sensibilities and need for deep connection with each other in your relationship. Your sexual relationship may help you to cleanse your inner relationship with the parent of the opposite sex.

In your relationship, you both start out strong with simple needs. You confront challenges bravely. Without healthy challenges in your life, this aspect could awaken a dark side of self-indulgence. Pluto does get you in touch with your deepest, darkest sorrows and pain, showing you as much truth as you can handle. Try to be patient and loving when your partner is dealing with core issues.

You recognize the importance of the inherent spiritual nature of the physical world for fulfilling desires. You have a powerful desire nature that is based on this process – you will be able to manifest what you want because you see yourself as bonded with the object of your desire. You have an ability to psychologically and psychically connect with what you desire, thus drawing whatever you seek rather easily to you. This works in business as well as other types of relationships. Strong desires combined with the power of an intense love such as yours can produce magical results. You have the ability to create through the power of love.
Sun in a quintile aspect to Moon (Strength: 3.81)

You are deeply compatible with each other in a balanced and very comfortable way. Your relationship seems to flow quite naturally as you alternate with each other between being active and passive, energetically creative and quietly nurturing. Your emotional nature supports your creative will, giving your life together a solid sense of completeness. The only danger here is that you feel so complete within your relationship that you do not really apply yourself to goals outside of your union. You might feel that your partner already offers everything you need for a very satisfying life.

There is a creative balance between you, a balance that is reminiscent of the archetypal connection between Sun and Moon. This connection can make your partnership very egalitarian, and this equality will allow each of you to easily grow and evolve within your relationship. You will tend to alternate roles without a lot of ego involvement, taking turns being in the lead in your relationship. Communication between you will likely be very good. Your emotional nature harmoniously connects with your intellect, giving you the ability to share your ideas and feelings with ease. In addition, the overall compatibility of this aspect creates a heightened sexual attraction between you. The two of you are complements to each other, and sex is a very powerful and intimate means of expressing that innate connection. Sex will likely give both of you deep emotional satisfaction, and deepen your love for each other.
Moon square Uranus (Strength: 3.08)

You could have an exciting if volatile relationship where the two of you push new boundaries and enjoy a sense of freedom together. This aspect enhances your individualism, which could mean that you lead parallel lives, each pursuing individual projects and activities. However, with work there can be a tremendous amount of emotional growth for both of you.

An intense attraction will likely bring you together. You will learn a lot about yourselves through this contact. Things may rather suddenly and, often unexpectedly, fall apart as you are pulled in new directions. Friendships and brief love affairs are more suitable for the instability of this erratic flow of energy than are committed relationships. In addition, friends and acquaintances are more important to this type of connection, and this can add more instability to the traditional ideal of a one-to-one personal relationship.

You are searching for the meaning of life, and this could constantly pull each of you in different directions. If you can let go of all preconceived ideas about relationships, then your union promises to teach you much about how to live life more purely and with a free spirit. But this will take work on your part. You will need to keep your egos in check and resist the temptation to control what is happening between you. This aspect demands total freedom of emotional expression. You will each experience your own emotional sensitivity and even neediness. The goal is to work on yourself rather than trying to control the other. Learn how to allow life to flow through you without expectations. Meditation and other spiritual practices can help you tremendously, by helping to establish an inner source of love and stability. This can help dissolve any neediness that you might feel, allowing for a greater sense of freedom within yourself as well as in your relationship.
Sun in harmonious aspect to Saturn (Strength: 2.89)

Your relationship is rather serious – it is focused more on accomplishment than it is on romantic concerns. There is something important and meaningful in your relationship, and you respect and value your partner. You are not very demonstrative with the expression of your emotions. Your emotional connection is quiet, expressed more through your dedication to each other, your dependability and steadfastness, and your deep commitment to your relationship and to each other. You feel very loving towards and loyal to each other in a quiet and private way. You see relationships as the basis of a healthy family, which in turn provide the basis for a healthy society. You are committed to your relationship and you work hard to build structure into it and create a secure life together. The structure within your relationship enables you to help society by extending support to others.

The one problem that you might experience is that your serious approach can become overbearing and too heavy for you. You might become too timid and pull back from experimenting with something new for the two of you, or you may become too rigid thereby limiting the life energy of your relationship. It can be enlivening for your relationship to schedule in some recreation time for the two of you, even if you focus it on learning rather than on romance.

Your relationship has an enduring stability. You are together for the long run and you bring a certain dignity and maturity to your relationship that inspires the admiration of others. You will each learn much about yourselves and about each other through this partnership. You will grow and mature throughout the duration of your relationship.
Venus opposite Neptune (Strength: 1.81)

This could be one of those storybook romances. You are both risk-takers. Each of you supports and encourages the other at those times when doubts assail them. That could be because you have the keen vision to see your partner’s true potential before the rest of the world does. If life can be compared to a boxing match, you are definitely in your partner’s corner offering support.

Your relationship promises tremendous potential for spiritual growth. In the beginning, you approached each other with very highly idealized and romantic feelings. You seem so perfect together that you feel like you have met your soul mate. There is a spiritual element to your connection that excites you, but that can have negative consequences. You will inevitably be severely disappointed when the fantasy fades and your dreams abruptly end.

Your fantasies about your relationship are showing you the potential of what can be, not what is. Nevertheless, within fantasy and dreams, there does lie a kernel of spiritual truth, and it is your task within your relationship to bring that truth out and apply it to your physical and mundane relationship. Learn to let go of unrealistic expectations, perhaps a little at a time, so that the spiritual element can grow. Your romantic fantasies are just creations that express the spiritual desires within you. As those spiritual desires grow within your real life, your fantasy creations then no longer are required. You might find that you are in a truly beautiful relationship that will work for you on the mundane level as well as in the ideal world.
Mars trine Neptune (Strength: 1.63)

This relationship provides the opportunity to be of service to your partner. The more your partner needs you, the more satisfying you will find it. But this aspect also makes the relationship unconventional – if you try to force it to be conventional and boring, then that could be the end of the relationship. You aspire to have a romantic, ideal life with your partner.

Your relationship can be a very spiritual union. You have an ability to make your dreams come true in an easy and relaxed way. You can apply your energies to a higher plane where ideals and dreams can be made very real. As you work and play together, you will likely gain many valuable insights regarding the nature of life and of your relationship. With this relationship, you glimpse the spiritual all around you, and you choose to live your life from that ideal higher state. This can include your sexual life – you might consider sex too mundane for the life that you have chosen to live. You might also approach your sexual interaction in a more refined and spiritual way, making it an ideal in itself. Sex was highly revered in antiquity, and there are those who see it as very spiritual today. Adding tantric practices to your sex life can help you find a balance between the spiritual and physical expression of your love for each other.

The planet Neptune in this composite aspect can also fog your mind and make you unclear about your relationship and what you wish to accomplish together. There can then be misunderstandings that get in the way of your joint activities – you can create foggy goals. You may have little or no ability to pay attention to the practical aspects of making your relationship work. To counter this, you must be very clear in your communication with each other concerning what you wish to do together. Meditation can help you to deepen your spiritual objectives while living in a real world relationship with each other.

If yours is a professional relationship, your natural talents lie in the creative arts, where your ideas will be welcomed. You could excel in any areas where you can apply your idealistic insights in order to help others. You can also teach what comes naturally to you, and this includes how to manifest your dreams.
Sun conjunct Mercury (Strength: 1.17)

There is no problem with communication between you, at least on the intellectual level. It is a pleasure to talk to each other and share ideas. You tend to think along the same lines, and you find it easy to understand one another. This is a very good connection for whatever type of relationship that you have, precisely because a relationship is based on relating. In a business relationship, you will not be hampered by a lack of communication in which the right hand does not know what the left hand is doing. You will tend to be in constant communication with each other, in order to help your business thrive. If yours is an intimate relationship, you will enjoy talking for hours on end with each other, which will help to create a more lasting bond between you. One reminder though: this aspect does not indicate emotional communication or the sharing of feelings. If you shy away from talking about feelings, and tend to stay on the intellectual, rational level of communication, you can take this opportunity to push yourself to communicate at least a little from your emotions. The benefits can be tremendous.

Mercury indicates travel as well as communication, and you will likely enjoy doing things together that require going places, such as shopping and short day trips to explore new horizons, or to enjoy tried and true getaways. In addition, you will enjoy traveling intellectually. You will explore new ideas with each other in order to keep your minds sharp and to learn new things. This aspect will help keep your relationship on the move intellectually.
Uranus conjunct Pluto (Strength: 0.60)

This energy appears in the charts of all people who were born in the mid-1960’s. The aspect gives you a restless, frenetic energy. It makes you hyperactive. You want to be on the forefront of the new and different. You seek out friends and collaborators with the same interest in the future. Your minds spout ideas like fountains. It definitely makes you optimists. Only you can decide if this is what you want your life to be about. The energies are not that consistent with a quiet life of having children and raising a family. But if you look at this relationship as an opportunity to grow and to learn, you can stretch it out and make the most of it for as long as you want.
Uranus in a quintile aspect to Neptune (Strength: 0.47)

You have the ability to appreciate the quirky, out-of-the-way, and unusual. You could be quite creative with music, poetry, and art, recombining elements in ways that give people new perspectives. Your ideal life is lived relatively free of rules and restrictions. This aspect does not give much structure to your life – you need to balance your mental, creative life with real-world needs, activities, and causes. Connections that give your life real meaning will make you happier than sitting on the couch playing video games.
Sun conjunct Mars (Strength: 0.42)

This is a connection filled with a good deal of energy, creativity and potential accomplishment. This energy can stimulate you in either direction, though, towards achieving common goals, or in ways that are more negative. Working together, you will find it easy to initiate new projects, and you will have more than enough energy to finish them. Your relationship is not about quiet relaxation or retiring from the concerns of the world. It is about doing things and being active together. If you approach your relationship from this perspective, it can teach you about the creative potential of your union. You can choose to become active in your community and this is an excellent opportunity for you to achieve results as a team.

The only danger inherent in this connection is that this energy seeks active expression. It is not docile or calm. Especially if this aspect is close and strong, where Mars is within one degree of the Sun, it can create a dynamic of competitiveness with each other, and if you are not careful this can lead to anger, arguments and even fights. Both of these planets are masculine in nature and relate to the ego in different ways, creating a situation where you can approach each other like two rams butting heads. How you deal with this will affect the quality of your relationship. Because of the nature of these energies, it would not be wise to try to repress anger as it comes up. It will just build up until it boils over into outright fights. When anger and arguments do arise, remember to stay focused on the issues and do not fall into personal attacks such as name calling or belittling the other. Remember that each of you are adults and have important and valid information that you bring to the relationship. Fighting can then become part of your creative process. It clears the air between you and allows each of you to learn from the other in order to grow in your relationship.

You need to put the energies of your relationship to good use. Rest can be good, but in your case, too much rest creates an itch to get up and do something. You need to engage in a good amount of activity in order to channel your energy into safe and productive forms of expression. Exercise and sports is an excellent expression of this energy. A strong sexual attraction between intimate partners also allows for the creative and pleasurable expression of energy. Be supportive of each other and actively reinforce each other to grow and express your creativity. You will both be active people. Reinforce each other to become bolder and more courageous in the way that you live. Whatever the nature of your relationship, it will be lively. As you learn to control and channel the energy of this connection, you will find that your relationship will become more creative and productive.

Celebrating Romance

Let’s talk about love. Your relationships and marriage are an
important part of realizing the life plan for which you were born. When you form a partnership with someone, your relationship can simultaneously enhance three areas of your life: 1) if you stick with it, a healthy relationship enables both of you to confront and heal inner emotional wounds from the past; 2) you may contribute to each other realizing cherished career or material goals; and 3) you can be a support for other lives besides your own, both human and animal. You may have agreed to do these things before you were born. What you do with the partner that you were fated to be with is described by the composite of your birth charts. How the other side orchestrates our experiences with the aid of the planets is too much for the human mind to grasp, but as astrologers we can see events ticking off with clockwork precision, and the composite chart that you share with a partner is an important part of that.

The introduction to the Composite Couples report mentions the amazingly close linkages in the composite chart between Prince Charles and Princess Diana. Without their fated marriage, we would not have the young Prince George (birthtime: 4:24 PM) whose natal chart features a Grand Water Trine between Saturn, Neptune, and Black Moon Lilith exact to within 0d04m, as well as many other close linkages, all of which suggest that the universe has destined Prince George to play an important role.
Your constructive partnership now can be part of a plan that will be realized with your grandchildren.

My wife and I are coming up on an important anniversary of our first date, which was on St. Patricks Day in 1990. She is a Jupiter-ruled Sun in Sagittarius, trine my Moon in Aries, and she has definitely helped my cautious Saturn-ruled Sun in Capricorn to expand. The StarMatch synastry report describes how our charts impact each other on a daily basis, but the many private, constructive ways in which we complement and help each other to grow are described in our Composite Couples report.

P.S., If you accepted a Facebook friend request from me in the last week, it was from an imposter using my name and picture.
Hopefully you can tell the difference and can unfriend the new ‘me’, the one who has 68 friends versus 300 friends.

Regards,

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John Halloran

Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

OK, I am still learning. I started learning hard core in 2012, now I am also getting into Medical Astrology. What I am looking at right now is Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals and how does that compare to the way they do match making in India. Examples:

The reading I did yesterday for a couple that have been together since they were 13 and still have a healthy thriving relationship after 9 years. I don’t have their time and location of birth, this is just based on their birthdays.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3022
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1453
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 2.08
Total Communication Index: 4476

Here is my brother and his wife; their charts are a little off, but the Ascendants are good, Mercury is good. Sun, Mars and Moon are also good; the only thing off was Venus. They haven’t been together all that long, but they seem to be working.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +4784
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -570
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 8.4
Total Communication Index: 5353

My Ex2012 and I whom was one of my longest and maybe healthiest relationship ever… The only thing off in our charts was Mars. We had a great first 5 years, we almost lasted 7 years and the last year ended in disaster.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +1610
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -3109
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): .52
Total Communication Index: 4719

Another Ex and I who also was astrologically compatible for the most part. Mars and Venus was off in our charts. Her and I are still friends, but not as close as we use to be. We lasted a long time, but not continuous; we dated off and on for almost a decade.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3605
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1908
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 1.89
Total Communication Index: 5513

My Ex2014 and I, we only lasted about a year. We wouldn’t have even lasted that long. We got together in July 2013, started having problems in Dec. 2013, broke up the first time in Jan. 2014; but got back together a week later and lasted another 9 months. We had our Mercury and Venus off. Mercury was the biggest issue I think.

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3695
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1647
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 2.24
Total Communication Index: 5342

Here is my Jr. High School Sweetheart whom I just found on FaceBook, we lost touch 25 years ago, but it probably wouldn’t have worked out anyway. We have Mercury and our Moons off; don’t know what time she was born, so I don’t know her Ascendant or house placements. (This one isn’t accurate because I don’t know her time of birth).

Communication Index (Harmonious): +2601
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -860
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 3.03
Total Communication Index: 3461

 

Here is my brother and I, he was my arch nemesis thoughout our growing up. Though we get along better now that we don’t live together…

Communication Index (Harmonious): +4998
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1016
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 4.92
Total Communication Index: 6013

 

What does it all mean??? I am still looking into it…

According to the astrologer that put my program together:

Some users have inquired regarding the normal range and significance of the different communication indexes. The range of the Harmonious Communication and Inharmonious Communication Indexes between two charts is from about 300 to 6000. This is for the default planet and aspect orb settings. Below 1500 is low; above 2500 is high. For compatibility, the Harmonious should be high and the Inharmonious low.
A Compatibility Index over 1.5 is high and over 2.5 is very high.

The positive or negative values that the planets and aspects are believed to have for personal relationships can be determined by examining the values that print out for each aspect when you choose Display Synastry during the Compare This Chart to Another menu selection on the Chart Information Screen. These numerical values have no absolute meaning; they are used to determine the sign and amount of an aspect’s contribution to the Harmonious and Inharmonious totals.
The Compatibility Index is the ratio of the Harmonious amount to the Inharmonious amount. The higher the Compatibility Index, the more the relationship is easy and free from friction.

You should look at the planetary aspects making up the indexes as you would not want, for example, discordant Saturn aspects that could warp or stunt growth (harmonious Saturn aspects promote stability and working out karmic problems).

A low Total Communication Index (less than 1800) gives so little communication that the two people are like ships passing in the night.
Regarding the total communication, we have become aware of the extent to which different people have different degrees of comfort with closeness or intimacy — this can affect the level of communication or closeness that they should have with their ideal partner. The speculation at this point is that an unaspected Moon or difficult aspects to the Moon or Venus could create a personality that finds emotional aspects from others to be unfamiliar and possibly uncomfortable.

Star Match Reading for 06-14-1992 & 10-17-1992

1992-06-14 1992-10-17

OK, here is a couple I just met. Well, I met one of them. He said they have been together since they were like 13yrs old. I didn’t get their birth times, so we don’t know their Ascendants or house placements. So lets look at the basics and see what they have that make them work.

Their Sun signs are compatible and most importantly their Mercury’s are compatible. His Moon is Sagittarius and hers is Cancer. His Venus is Gemini and hers is Scorpio. They both have glue, but she has more glue and both of them have glue in their Mercury. He said that they never fight and he cannot imagine anything better. They seem to be very happy together. Mars, his is Aries on a Taurus cusp and hers is Cancer. Energy wise, they are both pretty much on the same page. Sex wise as well; she needs it more then he does, but not by much. My theory is that it is best that the woman needs it just a bit more then the man, the man will almost always try and keep up.

Other then the Moon and Venus; they are very compatible and they both have glue, so they both believe in commitment above and beyond. There are many other aspects to consider, so lets look at their computer generated “StarMatch” reading:

Introduction

The StarMatch(tm) astrological compatibility report helps you compare two charts by 1) identifying each partner’s emotional needs by describing their Descendant (7th house cusp), Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars; and 2) examining the way their two charts interact. After describing what each partner needs in their love life, the report assesses their interaction by describing the significant aspects between their charts. These aspects identify areas of attraction, harmony, and conflict. The “Strength” noted for each aspect shows its degree of influence on the relationship. The Strength combines the aspect’s closeness of exactitude with its positive or negative value for compatibility purposes. The higher the Strength is, the more strongly the aspect is likely to be felt and acted out in the relationship.
Planets in Signs

Her Sun in Libra

What you need most from a relationship is perpetual growth and development. Your partner must be able to evolve with you as you grow in order that you don’t “outgrow” him or her. You need someone who knows how to keep the excitement alive in your relationship, or who is at least interested in learning how.

Libras love to fall in love, and many of your relationships may break up because of your need for constant change. Eventually you usually settle into a relationship that is stable yet ever-changing which allows you to undergo your own personal evolution.
His Sun in Gemini

Communication is very important in your relationships, and you can learn a great deal through your partners–that is, if you are willing to undergo a little self-examination. You don’t like others to probe your deeper secrets and feel embarrassed at displays of emotion (yours or others’).

It is important to you that your lover be your friend. Sex alone is not going to make you happy in a relationship, no matter how good it is. You have a light-hearted attitude toward sex and need a partner who shares your need for variety and stimulation. You have a knack for sexual experimentation and can become bored with a partner who is not of similar temperament.
Her Moon in Cancer

You are subject to wild mood swings, ranging from blissful excitement to deep depression, and have a tendency toward possessiveness regarding both material things and lovers. Women with this Moon placement make very nurturing mothers, while men are responsible providers for their children. Although you are quick to bestow favors on loved ones, you always expect something in return and feel dejected if you don’t receive it. Be careful not to use guilt to obtain your emotional goals.

You are good at planning for your retirement, and often once people with this placement pass forty years of age, they seem to become more youthful. It is important to you that you have the opportunity to be a grandparent. With business associates you are very shrewd and capable of making money quite easily, especially when it involves real estate and businesses located in the home.
His Moon in Sagittarius

You have a healthy sense of humor and, even in the worst circumstances, can find something bright in any situation. This can be a good attitude as long as you do not take things too lightly. There are times when a serious approach is more effective.

In love you are a warm and friendly companion, and your love relationships mature and grow deeper with time. You enjoy indulging in fantasies and acting them out. You also require a lover who shares your easygoing approach to life and love.
Her Mercury in Scorpio

You take sex very seriously and find it to be a very deep, intense experience. Since you have a special appreciation for having all of the physical pieces fit together in harmony, you tend to get the most you can out of sex. You are intensely passionate and have powerful sexual fantasies. It’s much healthier to find a willing lover to playfully act out these fantasies than to try and repress them, which would result in tremendous frustration.

Your thoughts are very deep, but you will share them only with your closest friends. You are secretive about your life, even when there is really nothing to hide. To others you appear very mysterious. You have a powerful, passionate sex drive and should resist any temptation to use your hypnotic powers on others as a means of control and manipulation.
His Mercury in Cancer

You value privacy and share your innermost feelings with very few people. Once you choose a lover, you are very devoted and loyal. You need little more in life than someone to love and a comfortable home. Indeed, you tend to be more of a “home body” than a socialite, and you need a partner who has similar preferences.

You want to share everything with your lover, and to you the perfect mate is one with whom you can blend souls completely, so that you become one person. While this sounds blissful and ideal, attempting to bond so tightly with some people will cause them to feel crowded and pull away. Whether you are a male or a female, this placement can be a sign of someone who is prone to “love too much.” You need a partner who will not take advantage of your complete devotion.
Her Venus in Scorpio

You are seeking transformation through your love life. A superficial romance does not stimulate you; you need intensity and passion. You are a loyal and committed lover, but you can be possessive and jealous of your lover, and it sometimes seems that intensity is more important to you than comfort in your relationships.

You are aware of everyone and everything around you, and you can often “pick up” your partner’s thoughts and feelings without the need for verbal communication. Passionate sexual expression is very important for you, and you can be persistent in stalking someone who attracts you. Your partner should be able to join you in fantasies and other bedroom games to further heighten the intensity of your sex life.
His Venus in Gemini

You are highly sensuous and enjoy the finer techniques of courting and lovemaking. Verbal affection and communication are important ingredients in any major relationship, and you don’t mind being “sweet-talked.” Sexually, your touch is soft and gentle, and your sexual curiosity is unlimited.

Your love nature constantly changes, and you are very unpredictable in this area. It is necessary that your partner interest and excite you, and it would be helpful if they have a healthy sense of humor. If you get bored with the affair, you may be tempted to move on to more stimulating options.
Her Mars in Cancer

You are a caring and protective lover and are very responsive to the emotional and physical needs of your partner. You are affectionate and sentimental, and feel most comfortable with your lover in familiar, safe surroundings. Although you only seek to nurture your lover, be careful that you do not come on as being overprotective or smothering.

The rhythm of your sexuality is somewhat unpredictable; your desire may build up for a long time before you act upon it, and then your intensity is surprising. Do your lover a favor and let them know when you are feeling amorous. Then you can both be prepared and relax into joyful, loving play.
His Mars in Aries

You have a direct approach to romance and lovemaking, and you need a partner who does not require a great deal of courting and who will not mind that you are most often the initiator in your relationship. You are eager to get to the physical part of lovemaking and should be careful not to leave your partner behind emotionally once you get involved. The lessons you need to learn are self-restraint and patience.

Be careful not to act rashly and impulsively in making commitments in love relationships. Also, be sure to get all sides of the story and think things over carefully before acting in anger. Otherwise, you may regret it when you calm down.
Planets in Aspect

Her Sun trine His Sun (Strength: +1440.0 )

Your temperaments adjust easily to each other, and your personalities naturally harmonize. There is much mutual sympathy and understanding, as well as support in achieving common ideals or goals. This is a positive aspect between any two charts, especially those of love and marriage partners. There is much compatibility and mutual respect.
Her Sun trine His Venus (Strength: +960.0 )

There is a magnetic attraction between you, as well as mutual affection and devotion. You share a strong friendship and are generous and understanding toward each other. There is much mutual respect, and you can encourage each other to be the best you can become. Between romantic partners this aspect indicates domestic harmony, loyalty and fidelity. You share many of the same interests and therefore enjoy a pleasant social life.
Her Mars opposite His Uranus (Strength: -378.0 )

This aspect indicates a conflict of wills between you and a difficulty in cooperating. 10.17.1992 resents the independence and impersonal side of 6.14.1992 and feels that 6.14.1992 is not always dependable. There is irritation between you, which can be upsetting to one or both partners. Romance between you could well end in separation unless you can develop mutual tolerance and patience. It may help if you undergo periodic separations.
Her Mars opposite His Neptune (Strength: -252.0 )

This aspect can be a source of emotional disruption between you. 10.17.1992 is abrupt and impatient; 6.14.1992 is elusive or deceptive in response to 10.17.1992’s pushiness. It is likely that there will be many misunderstandings and disagreements between you. If 6.14.1992 is very sensitive, 10.17.1992’s aggression could upset the health of 6.14.1992. This is not a favorable aspect between partners in a love relationship.
His Uranus conjunct Her Neptune (Strength: +252.0 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. You share a mutual interest in occult, mystic or psychic matters. There is also a similarity in your social or political views. 6.14.1992 can inspire 10.17.1992 to express creativity in new and innovative ways, while 10.17.1992 can contribute vision and compassion to 6.14.1992’s outlook on life.
His Sun opposite Her North Node (Strength: -200.0 )

10.17.1992 acts as a restraining influence on 6.14.1992’s impulsiveness, which 6.14.1992 sees as criticism and interference. It may seem to 10.17.1992 that following 6.14.1992’s advice only takes 10.17.1992’s attention away from important goals and ambitions. However, if 10.17.1992 is able to help 6.14.1992 consider other perspectives and become more of a self-confident individual, then both partners can benefit from this aspect. Also, 6.14.1992 may help 10.17.1992 overcome insecurity and fear of social disapproval.
Her Mercury sextile His Uranus (Strength: +92.3 )

10.17.1992 finds 6.14.1992 to be highly stimulating intellectually and very imaginative. Indeed 10.17.1992 can learn a great deal from this relationship. 10.17.1992 could help give the many ideas of 6.14.1992 substance in the real world by giving them practical application. You have a great deal of intuitive communication between you, and this allows you to share each other’s ideas more freely. 6.14.1992 may stimulate 10.17.1992’s interest in occult or spiritual matters. This is a good combination in an astrologer-client relationship.
Her Mercury square His Saturn (Strength: -49.6 )

6.14.1992 can be critical and discouraging and may tend to harshly judge or discount the intellectual talents and attainments of 10.17.1992. 6.14.1992 can do damage to 10.17.1992’s self-confidence, causing resentment to grow between you. 10.17.1992, you must learn to protect your own spiritual health and well being. 10.17.1992 may feel that 6.14.1992 is limiting 10.17.1992’s growth, and that because of 6.14.1992 there are delays and restrictions placed on 10.17.1992’s progress. 10.17.1992 will seem careless and impulsive to 6.14.1992. It is difficult for you to cooperate with each other (unless the comparison contains several other positive aspects which offset this one). If there are many other mitigating aspects, much can be learned through constructively challenging each other in your individual (and collective) goals in life.
His Venus opposite Her North Node (Strength: -42.0 )

10.17.1992 can appear to be cold and insensitive toward 6.14.1992, which causes 6.14.1992 to consider 10.17.1992 to be withdrawn and antisocial. If the comparison is mostly a favorable one, 6.14.1992 will be able to draw out 10.17.1992 and help 10.17.1992 be more self-confident.
Her Sun opposite His Mars (Strength: -40.9 )

This is an aspect of potential conflict, unless there are many positive aspects balancing out its aggressive energies. There is much mutual stimulation, and there can be jealousy and rivalry. At the very least, you will be impatient with each other; at worst, you will be vindictive. In order to overcome this aspect, you must consciously develop mutual cooperation and patience.
Her Mars trine His Pluto (Strength: +34.3 )

This aspect indicates mutual interests and ambitions, especially if you are working together on a large-scale project. You would work well as partners in research, engineering, politics and civic affairs. This is a very good aspect between business partners, as you can assist each other in achieving individual goals. Between partners in a love relationship there is a strong physical attraction.
Her Mercury trine His Mercury (Strength: +30.0 )

This aspect indicates a great deal of intellectual harmony and agreement. There is much mutual understanding, and any disagreements are easily worked out. Conversations between you are very stimulating, and you have many things in common. You can learn a great deal from each other, as this aspect encourages mutual growth.

Her Uranus conjunct His Neptune (Strength: +28.2 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. You share a mutual interest in occult, mystic or psychic matters. There is also a similarity in your social or political views. 10.17.1992 can inspire 6.14.1992 to express creativity in new and innovative ways, while 6.14.1992 can contribute vision and compassion to 10.17.1992’s outlook on life.

Her Sun trine His Saturn (Strength: +27.6 )

You have no trouble agreeing on how to handle your problems and meet your responsibilities. This aspect encourages confidence, enthusiasm, ambition, organization and persistence in you both. This is a very good combination between romantic or business partners and is an indicator of a long-term relationship. 6.14.1992 stabilizes 10.17.1992, who returns absolute loyalty and reassurance. 10.17.1992 encourages and stimulates 6.14.1992 to act on ideas. Any limitations or restraints that 6.14.1992 may place upon 10.17.1992 usually work out for the ultimate good of both. It also indicates a karmic tie between you.

Her Uranus conjunct His Uranus (Strength: +26.7 )

With Uranus in the same sign, you were either born within seven years of each other or about 80-90 years apart. You react in the same way to new inventions, changes in government, music, etc. You have the same definitions of “freedom” and “independence” and have the same understanding of your generation’s urge to achieve self-expression. You also have similar interests and beliefs regarding metaphysics or nontraditional philosophies.

Her Jupiter square His North Node (Strength: -26.3 )

You have very different opinions as to what constitutes proper social conduct, and each of you often feels that the other’s behavior is inappropriate. 10.17.1992 thinks 6.14.1992 is superficial for blindly following fads and trends. 6.14.1992 believes 10.17.1992 is too traditional and resistant to change.

Her Pluto conjunct His Pluto (Strength: +22.9 )

You are around the same age and have similar experiences of the world. Your ideas and viewpoints have been conditioned in similar directions. Since you share this aspect with everyone close to your age, it is not significant in analyzing compatibility.

Her Sun square His Neptune (Strength: -22.8 )

This can be a difficult aspect in a close relationship, as there is a natural power conflict. 6.14.1992 will seem elusive, evasive and even deceptive to 10.17.1992, and 10.17.1992 is baffled by 6.14.1992. There is a mutual lack of trust and frequent misunderstandings. 6.14.1992 can behave in a misleading manner, appearing to be submissive to 10.17.1992 but actually eluding the issue. The relationship may be marked by doubt, confusion, deception and infidelity.

His Saturn square Her Pluto (Strength: -22.3 )

10.17.1992, as the reformer and transformer, challenges 6.14.1992’s attitudes toward life’s responsibilities. If the comparison is mostly positive, this will represent only a mild test. If there are many negative aspects, this aspect can increase resentment and even lead to hatefulness, which is especially troublesome between parents and children. 10.17.1992 may be tempted to play on 6.14.1992’s fears. 6.14.1992 may try to restrict 10.17.1992’s freedom.

Her Moon sextile His Mars (Strength: +22.3 )

6.14.1992 stimulates the imagination, ideas and self-confidence of 10.17.1992. You can work well together in order to maintain a comfortable home environment and accomplish mutual career goals. As a team, you encourage each other to be the best you each can be. 10.17.1992 has a soothing effect on 6.14.1992, while 6.14.1992 can help 10.17.1992 gain the courage to fight life’s battles.

His Mercury opposite Her Uranus (Strength: -21.2 )

10.17.1992 is stimulating and intriguing to 6.14.1992, but also may at times be irritating and upsetting. 6.14.1992 may not wish to accept the ideas of 10.17.1992, who may seem unstable or erratic to 6.14.1992; at the same time 6.14.1992 seems elusive and superficial to 10.17.1992. This aspect can cause difficulty in relationships and requires considerable understanding and adjustment by both partners. To make things worse, they often share a mutual impatience with the other. Often circumstances bring about repeated separations or an off-and-on relationship. The truth is that you truly need time away from each other, even if you don’t know it.

Her Moon opposite His North Node (Strength: -19.6 )

You have very different opinions regarding social beliefs, popular fads and trends, and economic issues. 6.14.1992 considers 10.17.1992 to be superficial for blindly following the opinion of the crowd. 10.17.1992 sees 6.14.1992 as being negative and pessimistic.

Her Neptune conjunct His Neptune (Strength: +18.9 )

This aspect indicates that you share common ideals and many mutual interests, such as in music, drama, poetry, mysticism or psychic phenomena, religion and politics. It can also indicate a mutual tendency toward escapism, especially through drugs. You share this aspect with everyone in your immediate age group.

Her Moon conjunct His Mercury (Strength: +14.4 )

There is a mental affinity between you and an appreciation for each other’s ideas and views. Conversation is very exciting and stimulating and you can play the roles of both teacher and student with each other. You have many mutual interests, and your association encourages learning. Often there is telepathic thought projection between people with this combination. 6.14.1992 is able to understand 10.17.1992’s worst moods and to even see them as endearing. 10.17.1992 may be fascinated by 6.14.1992’s intellectual qualities and will be a captive audience.

Her Mercury sextile His Neptune (Strength: +13.8 )

6.14.1992 inspires, elevates and encourages 10.17.1992’s ideas. There are many mutual interests with this combination, and you have each other’s better interests at heart. You have well-developed mutual understanding and perhaps even share telepathic communication. In most cases this aspect indicates a psychic tie. 6.14.1992 especially can intuitively sense what 10.17.1992 is thinking. 10.17.1992 can often make practical suggestions to apply 6.14.1992’s intuition and imagination.

His Moon sextile Her Saturn (Strength: +10.0 )

This aspect indicates a favorable give-and-take arrangement whereby 10.17.1992 provides stability and 6.14.1992 in turn enlarges the ideas of 10.17.1992. 10.17.1992 will be dependable and trustworthy and can counsel 6.14.1992. There is mutual trust and respect here. 10.17.1992 brings out the more conservative qualities in 6.14.1992. You have little difficulty managing money together and, if you have children, you will most likely agree on how to raise them.

Her Moon sextile His Jupiter (Strength: +9.5 )

This is a very positive aspect in any relationship, as it encourages mutual confidence and respect. 6.14.1992 stimulates 10.17.1992’s imagination and self-confidence and will also be patient, tolerant, generous and protective. Even if the relationship should end, 6.14.1992 would never hold any ill feelings toward 10.17.1992. If 6.14.1992 is spiritually inclined, 6.14.1992 will have an inspiring effect on 10.17.1992, bringing out 10.17.1992’s best qualities. This aspect also promotes cooperation in raising children. You would also enjoy traveling together to foreign lands.

His Neptune sextile Her Pluto (Strength: +6.2 )

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.

Her Sun square His Uranus (Strength: -5.8 )

Freedom is a problem area in your relationship. 10.17.1992 finds 6.14.1992 to be annoyingly unpredictable, and 6.14.1992 resents 10.17.1992’s attempts at control and will rebel against any display of power or authority by 10.17.1992. In extreme cases your conflicts may even become violent. It is difficult to achieve cooperation with this combination, and it often causes conflict and separations. Both of you are impatient with the other and find it difficult to see things from their perspective.

Her Mercury conjunct His Pluto (Strength: +4.8 )

Your experiences together will transform both your lives and will especially stimulate 10.17.1992’s mind. You each have a profound transformative effect upon the other’s basic beliefs and level of awareness. You also share a mutual interest in the occult or psychic matters. 6.14.1992’s influence on 10.17.1992 is stronger than 10.17.1992’s on 6.14.1992. Through conversation 10.17.1992’s ideas may be transformed by 6.14.1992, and 10.17.1992 may resent being “brainwashed.” But actually 6.14.1992 is trying to force 10.17.1992 to explore new dimensions of thinking so that 6.14.1992 can examine the ideas in greater depth. You can teach each other a great deal and will broaden each other’s view of the world.

Her Venus conjunct His Pluto (Strength: +2.4 )

This aspect can indicate mutual social or economic benefit to each partner. You share a deep emotional tie, and between partners in a romantic relationship there is usually a strong sexual connection. 6.14.1992 may tend to be demanding, jealous or possessive toward 10.17.1992. You have most likely shared many incarnations together and bring a karmic tie into your relationship in this lifetime.

Her Neptune sextile His Pluto (Strength: +2.0 )

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.

His Jupiter trine Her Uranus (Strength: +1.1 )

You respect each other’s need for freedom and individuality of expression. 6.14.1992 will encourage 10.17.1992’s originality and inventiveness and can tolerate 10.17.1992’s displays of Uranian independence. This is a good contact between the charts of business partners, in which case 10.17.1992 would supply the creative originality and 6.14.1992 the capital to finance development of the ideas. There is much mutual inspiration and often a shared interest in metaphysics or occult matters.

His Mars trine Her North Node (Strength: +0.8 )

Cooperation comes easy for you, whether it’s in business or domestic affairs. 6.14.1992 has a great deal of energy and motivation to initiate projects. 10.17.1992 has a finger on the pulse of society’s fads and trends and can help 6.14.1992’s projects gain wider public acceptance.

His Uranus sextile Her Pluto (Strength: +0.8 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. It indicates mutual encouragement and cooperation, especially in projects requiring versatility and innovative thinking. 10.17.1992 can help 6.14.1992 to assert 6.14.1992’s individuality more effectively, while 6.14.1992 can show 10.17.1992 new ways of reaching goals in life. This is also an excellent aspect for spiritual development in either or both of you.
Her Saturn conjunct His Saturn (Strength: +0.7 )

You have similar needs for security in life, and you both are ambitious about achieving your goals. Therefore, you understand what makes each other tick emotionally. If the comparison is a positive one overall, this aspect will encourage effective and satisfying teamwork. If there are many negative aspects, this one will lead to feelings of restriction, worry and lack of self-confidence. As with other Saturn contacts, this one indicates longevity of the relationship (provided that the parties can make it through the required adjustment period.)

His Moon conjunct Her North Node (Strength: +0.6 )

Your beliefs about popular trends and social attitudes are compatible, and you are likely to have similar family backgrounds and social status. Therefore, your cultural and moral values are usually in agreement and you have many mutual interests.

His Sun square Her Jupiter (Strength: -0.5 )

6.14.1992 tends to shift responsibility to 10.17.1992, and at times it appears that 6.14.1992 expects 10.17.1992 to be willing to do all the giving. In an effort to please, 10.17.1992 may make promises which cannot be fulfilled and therefore disappoint 6.14.1992. There may be major differences between your ideals, ambitions and ethics. 6.14.1992 may expect too much of 10.17.1992 and must develop a sense of compromise. This is not a seriously adverse aspect if most of the comparison is harmonious.

His Saturn sextile Her North Node (Strength: +0.2 )

You share similar concerns regarding the current state of society, the economy and politics. In business you would be able to combine 6.14.1992’s planning abilities and 10.17.1992’s insight into current trends to achieve success for you both.

His Mercury opposite Her Neptune (Strength: -0.1 )

This aspect indicates frequent misunderstandings and even possibly deception, especially by 10.17.1992. At the very least, there will be many secrets that 10.17.1992 will not share with 6.14.1992. It’s possible you may out and out lie to each other, or that more subtle forms of deception will be practiced. 6.14.1992 is often at a loss to understand 10.17.1992, and 10.17.1992 may seem distant or detached to 6.14.1992. This combination is more difficult on 6.14.1992 than 10.17.1992. In a business relationship there is a danger of fraud.

Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3022
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1453
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 2.08
Total Communication Index: 4476

Chinese Astrology Zodiac Signs and Their Western Counterparts

Not sure how accurate this is; but my girlfriend told me that the counterpart for the Dragon was Aries and she is a Dragon and an Aries :) I am a Leo and a Tiger and I have always identified with both and so that was what made me believe in astrology in the first place. Then my Ex2012 was a Taurus and a Snake; they both pretty much had the same identity. In 2012 I learned that I have two Libras and the Libra and Tiger interpretation were very similar too, so I thought that that was why I identified to the Tiger because of my Libras.

So I was thinking that maybe the Tiger is the Libras counter part; my GF and I was just talking about that and she told me to Google it and so I did, here is what I found:

Does your Chinese Zodiac sign have a Western Zodiac equivalent sign? Yes, it does. Our staff here at Firepig.com have compile a list of Chinese Zodiac signs and their matching counterparts in the Western Zodiac.

The Rat Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Sagittarius.

The Ox Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Capricorn.

The Tiger  Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Aquarius.

The  Rabbit Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Pisces.

The  Dragon Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Aries.

The  Snake Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Taurus.

The  Horse Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Gemini.

The  Sheep Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Cancer.

The  Monkey Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Leo.

The Rooster Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Virgo.

The  Dog Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Libra.

The  Pig Chinese Zodiac sign is equivalent to Scorpio.

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Now I have yet to take this as gospel, I will have to more research and you should too. Please let me know what you find as so will I. Thank you so much, CainO’

Shawn Hughes & Mary Schulz

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Dear Shawn Hughes, https://www.facebook.com/shawn.hughes.106 and Mary: https://www.facebook.com/maryschlz?fref=ts

“maybe you answer on here”

I’m not sure what this means or what you are referring to. But yes, I answer on here; if what it is that you expect me to answer to is worthy of a response. And yes, I will try and accommodate your need for an answer where I can.

“leave mary alone” 

Again, I’m not sure what you are referring to. I am done with the her and have been done with her for some time now; you sir are the one who is picking at a wound that is trying to heal. If you are referring to the evidence that I have of her lies, cheating, screwing me over and ripping me off, I will wipe the slate clean as soon as she repays her dept; so long as she and her people quit stirring up shit. If she wanted me to leave her alone, then why was she the one trying to get back with me in April 2013; one year after the affair started? I have already washed my hands of her and have let go and let God; she has to deal with Karma now, and you know what they say about her.

Mary was the one who whored around on me. If you are one of the guys she cheated on me with, then you can kiss my ass. I had my eye on your profile after I caught her cheating on me, but I didn’t find anything on you; so I blew you off. Now it appears your trying to be her knight in shinning armor, look pretty fishy… Maybe your the one she cheated on John with; John Rodriguez is the one I have proof she cheated on me with. Not Johnny, that’s her ex-husband. Either way, be advised that your next. She cheated on me, she cheated on her ex-husband (which I didn’t find out about till later); but he was cheating on her too so what’s the difference? She probably cheated before and she’ll probably do it again; leopards don’t change their spots. “Past predicts future”. I have more dirt on her then she will want you to dig up. I could have exposed her way more then I already did, but I chose not to. I have nothing to hide, so dig away if you may.

“disable the adult friend finder acct”

Again, I am not sure what you are talking about. I do not do Adult Friend Finder, that in my opinion is a whore site and I don’t do whores. If that’s your preference, that would be your prerogative; I don’t care. If she has an Adult Friend Finder account, maybe you should be taking that up with her? You can send me the link to this so called account and I will look in to it if I can; otherwise, take it up with Adult Friend Finder because I have nothing to do with it.

“remove kaitlins pics from facebook”

Any pictures I have of the kids is from our past and have nothing to do with you, so until I hear that from Katelin herself whom you don’t even know how to spell her name; I will do no such thing. As for our family photo’s, forget it.

“this will be the last nice request”

You call that a nice request??? It’s not even a request, not to mention it is the first and only time I have ever herd of this.

“next i will be seeing your business partner on stone for more info on you”

I don’t have a business partner on stone, so maybe you need to start getting your facts straight before making threats and allegations.

“I will also epose you for the pedophile you are”

Wow, at least you know how to spell that word. I wonder why??? Pedophile, where the hell do you come off accusing someone of something like that? I was better to Mary and the Girls then any man in Mary’s history and probably in her future. Andrew was the one who was supposedly messing around with one of the Girls, looks like someone doesn’t have his facts in order once again… What I do know is that a Skink smells it’s odor first; so maybe we should be taking a deeper look at you???

Last but not least:

If you can prove to me that I have in fact done anything wrong, I will do what I can to rectify it. Any evidence you have must be presented to me in writing so that I can document it. I want PROOF of any accusation against me. Also, did you check with Mary before opening this can of warms? I can guarantee you that she has WAY more to hide then I do, you better get with her before taking this action any further. If you don’t, I’m pretty sure it’s going to back fire.

On that note; if you wish to take legal action, you can contact my Lawyer “Ross Nigro”. His office is down town just outside of West Port and he is also the Prosecuting Attorney for Raytown, Mo. If you make any more threats or false allegations against me, you will be hearing from him. This is your only notice. I will be emailing my Lawyer a copy of this letter, he will be prepared for your call and/or to draw up charges against you.

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BTW… I ran your astrology and though you are more astrologically compatible to her then John was, it still doesn’t look good. You are more like me then you are her, so you’ll more then likely have the same or similar problems with her as I did. Your Numerology is even worse… Good luck with that and good ridden, CainO’

David Michael Cain O’Dougherty

Foot Notes: “That was like sooo Age of Pisces” Sounds like I am not the one who needs to move on…

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Now, in comparing their charts, (http://datingbythesigns.com/Charts/XC-560-C823C1%20%20499.pdf) you will see that they look much alike. That is because they were born approximately one month apart from one another. I don’t know his Ascendent or House placements yet; but if anyone can take a wild guess, I would like your opinion. I would say his Mercury is in the house of fire the way he pops off his mouth and shows off his Taurus. I don’t think his Mars is in the House of Taurus, I think he might appear like a Taurus.

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OK… Let break down their charts, shall we.

Sun in Aries and Sun in Taurus: Fare and Earth don’t mix, especially in your foundation. However, they do have Berlin Wall compatibility here. It will be a struggle, but it might work.

Now Sun wise; he is more astrologically compatible to her then I was, but the chemistry isn’t there. However, he is more astrologically compatible to me then her. In fact his birthday if he were born in the morning, was one of the birthdays I was looking for in a new woman after I caught her cheating on me. Isn’t that Ironic???

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Moon in Scorpio and Moon in Aries: Not so good. The Moon is ones emotional and psychological needs. Now not knowing his Ascendent, his Moon could be in Libra like mine. If he was born before noon, he is Libra; if he was born after noon, then he is Scorpio.

In this position, he is also more compatible to me then her. My hypothesis by the way he shoots off his mouth is that his Moon is in Scorpio. His emotional and psychological needs is for control, dominance and power; that may also be why he has that bad boy look and he has an extensive criminal record. Moon in Water is also an addiction position, so he will either have addiction problems or he may struggle with them. Addictions can be good; the one she cheated on me with was also Moon in Water, but he was addicted to working out and being a body builder. https://www.facebook.com/john.rodriguez.54540218?fref=ts – They are no longer friends; he was just using her anyway… That is what Philanderers do.
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If Shawn was born in the afternoon, Moon in Scorpio is Berlin Wall to my Libra. Now if he was born in the morning and is in fact Moon in Libra with influence of Aquarius just like me, then like me his Moon is Secondary compatible to hers. The issue with her Moon is that she is selfish. One Aries isn’t going to make someone too selfish, but she has four. All four of her Aries are either primary or secondary positions; this is not good. She is mostly all Aries and Taurus in her primaries with a Gemini Ascendent to boot, she has a lot of lessons to learn with that chart.

Ascendents: Again, we don’t know his; but my theory is that it could be Taurus. Why do I say this??? I think that with most people, we are attracted to people that appear like us; the Ascendent is how you appear. So he could have a Fire or Air Ascendent too, I don’t know. She is Taurus, so if he appears like one; they might think they are alike. Also; if he is Taurus Ascendent, that would be Inconjunct to hers and might work or give them the illusion that it might work.

She is a Gemini Ascendent, meaning diarrhea of the mouth. Gemini Ascendents according to my old astrology teacher is one of the worst positions one can have. Negative negative negative diarrhea of the mind and mouth, according to him. In her case, I would agree. I got soo annoyed with all her negativity and where I think we started having problems is, I simply just got tired of hearing it. That is when things went down hill and she eventually went behind my back with other men; which wasn’t surprising really, because she had been going behind my back with other things during the entire relationship. So that was where it all started, then I think I started loosing hope when she started reveling to me her true self.

With good aspects, Gemini Ascendent wouldn’t be so bad I am sure; I just see it as a red flag anymore even though it is compatible to my Libra Ascendent. Every sign and position has its pros and cons, just some aspects tend to lean more one way or another. Our mission is to know both side and try our best to stay away from the dark side. For some of us, this is easier said then done; but it must be done in order to find happiness and self worth.

Rahu and Katu: I am not going to go into the Rahu and Katu because it could change with the Moon pending time of birth. Rahu and Katu are the North and South Nodes of the Moon. It appears that their Rahu and Katu are the same, but the house placements are more important and we don;t know his. Out of the primaries and secondaries; most the planets you look at the signs first then the houses; Rahu and Katu are the opposite.

Mercury in Taurus: Now here is where it gets interesting. Her Mercury is in a strong Taurus and so is his. My Mercury is in Virgo with influence of Capricorn. What does this mean? You don’t want the same in you primaries; you want Trine or Sextile, the same would be a Conjunction.

The will both think and communicate dominance, power and control; eventually it will not work to their advantage. This is a fighting position, so they are going to fight and buck heads a lot. Here, I am Trine with them, so they are both more compatible with me then they are each other. Now her house placement is Aquarius like mine, so he may also think that a lot of what she says is crazy talk; from experience I would agree. If I would have known astrology before getting with her, I more then likely would have stayed far far way. I assume that because I have a lot of Aquarius influences in my chart like she does, we both may appear a bit crazy; so maybe that is why we worked together for as long as we did.

Venus in Aries: Here, they are both Venus in Aries with influence of Leo; where mine is a strong Leo. Venus is your Loves and Values. This is not a Primary position, so Conjunctions and Berlin Walls are OK. However, astrologically I am again more compatible to them then they are to each other. Her House placement is Aquarius and mine is Capricorn, we don’t know his.

Mars in Pisces and Mars in Aries: Now for the grand finally… Here is where I see the biggest problems. Mars is your energy and sexual needs. Mars in Pisces is a dreamer and a workaholic. Mars in Aries is Selfish and lazy. Aries in general is a go getter, but Mars in Aries will only get up and go for their own selfish wants. So if you want to motivate Mars in Aries or anyone with Mars in Fire, find out what they “want” and that is how to motivate them.

Mars in Air and Mars in Fire are the more laid back on the couch and hang out type of people, where Mars in Earth and Water are the more workaholics. Mars in Earth and Water will get the job done to get the job done. Mars in Fire and Air are like mules, you need to dangle a carrot in front of them in order to get them moving. Mars in Fire is like; “If it’s not fun, I’m not interested”.

He has Mars in Water and she has Mars in Fires; he like me, will end up realizing that she is lazy and wants someone to support and take care of her like welfare. She wants everything handed to her on a silver platter and it should be because she deserves it, that is how she thinks. He will want to dream of the possibilities and then work to make them happen. The bonus here is that if he can dream up ways to make her wants come true, it could work as long as he doesn’t expect her to do any work; he will have to do all or 90% of the work.

Mars in Water needs sex nearly every day, where Mars in Fire is good about maybe twice a week. As I said in a previous blog, Fare and Water don’t mix!

My Mars is Earth. He needs it more then I do and she needs it less. Then hers and mine are in the house of Aquarius which makes it even less… If he has Mars in anything stronger, they are going to have serious problems in the bedroom. Aquarius can be kinky, so he will love that, but it wont last. Air is as low of a sex drive as you can go. Now if this is so, then why did she cheat on me? It wasn’t about the sex, it was about her energy. She wants a Sugar Daddy to give her all her hearts desires but she doesn’t want to give much in return.

What I do know about her is that she can be a very service oriented person, only to get what she wants. She will give him what he seeks for now; but again, it wont last. They have known each other for about two years and now that she is tired of living in her parents basement, they will move in together; this is where things will go down hill like it did with us. The first year was OK, but it got worse as time went on.

The thing about astrological compatibility is: If you are not compatible; you tend to fall in love fast, then slowly fall out of love. If you are compatible; your not so much attracted to each other at first, but you slowly fall more and more in love. Which is better??? That is why in 2012 I started looking diligently for astrological compatibility. I wanted the next one to be for life as I did the one before and the one before that and the one before that and so forth… I found astrological compatibility, or at least better then I had before.

The only issue I have now is Mercury. Her Mercury is Aries and Mine is Virgo. That is a non compatible position in a primary position, so we are going to have communication issues. We knew that going into the relationship and we both chose to accept that challenge. My astrologer that wrote the astrology program which I use says you don’t have to be compatible, knowing astrology will help you work through the challenges and know why the other person is doing what they do. Their not trying to piss you off, that’s just who they are.

The good thing is that our Mercury house placements are Trine and this helps a lot :) My Ex’s Mercury and mine was Trine with a conjunction on our houses, so that was better; but we had other things in our charts that were bad like our foundation and our energy. Shawn and my Ex could make it work. Like with me, they have foundation and energy issues. However; theirs is Berlin-Wall aka Inconjunct and so there is a slight possibility it could work.

My new GF and I have an excellent foundation, we appear alike, our emotional and psychological needs are similar, Our Venus’s and Mercury’s are off, but our energy is good and our business sighs are good too. We both know and understand astrology and are working through our past and what challenges we have in our charts right off the bat so that we can have a smoother road ahead. I cannot speak for the two of them, but you can see that it doesn’t look like they are headed in the right direction. I am friends with my GF’s Ex even though I don’t approve of the ways he treated her, Shawn and Mary are looking for a war with others and they are only going to end up with a war among themselves.

Jupiter and Saturn: They both have Jupiter in Gemini and they both have Saturn in Leo. You can look this up if you like ( 5.14.77 & 4.5.77 ), but they are more minor unless you are in business. Jupiter is your work and/or business sign. Jupiter in Gemini??? I would think they would be unstable, but they have their strengths and weaknesses just like everyone else.

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Numerology: I wont go too deep into their Numerology except to say it sucks. There isn’t much more I can say about it, it is in the low low low percentile. You can do the math, let me know what your results are?

I Finally Found Astrological Compatibility (7.14.2013)

 

It took me a year of hard core studying, research and looking to find someone who was astrologically compatible to me; but I think I found her! I got into astrology to help save my dieing relationship last year, but little did I realize that it was already dead and not salvageable. We were however pretty astrologically compatible, but our foundations were off and we had a major shift in 2012 that collapse all that we were building. After I was past denial, I kept studying to understand what went wrong and to understand what I should be looking for in the next mate. I signed up to about a hundred date lines and even altered my own date lines to help me not only find astrological compatibility but to help others as well. I was more successful in helping others, but it helped me learn more as well. I now have a few dedicated followers who believe in me and what I have learned and how I have helped them.

May of 2013, my original astrology teacher (Jeff) and one of my astrology mentors had suggested someone for me that he had found. She wasn’t 100% compatible to me; but she was semi compatible and according to our planetary alignments, we might do till we found something better. Only thing was; he doesn’t really focus on house placements and neither of us wanted a casual relationship, so we didn’t want to have anything to do with each other. I recently got into studying house placements to be able to figure out time of birth and Ascendents, because many people don’t know or don’t want to reveal this information. For example; someone who curses a lot, will more then likely have Mars in or on the cusp of the 2nd house. I have proven this to be true with many people.

A woman I have liked for some time is not too compatible; but in looking at house placements, we could be very compatible. Only after getting to know her, we actually are not all that compatible. Well, in June I was tricked into meeting this new woman and we pretty much hit it off right away though we didn’t seem to be all that compatible at first. However I held onto her thinking she might be able to help me find someone who is? The more I got to know her, the more I got to like her and it turns out that we are very compatible. So first impressions are not always the best, you cannot always judge a book by its cover.

I am Leo in the house of Aquarius and she is Aries in the house of Libra, this is a double Trine on our foundation which is the best you can have! Our Ascendents are semi compatible; mine is Libra and hers is Virgo, which is right next door to each other. Our Moons are the same but in the house of Pisces. This is good because we will understand each others emotional and psychological needs. In that; Ideally the man wants his Moon to be behind the woman’s, this way his Moon doesn’t have to travel very far to catch up to hers and he will be quick to see that she needs him. My Ex 2012, he Moon was behind mine and therefor this was an issue; not to mention that it too was semi compatible.

My Venus is Leo in the house of Capricorn and hers is Taurus in the house of Sagittarius. Now at first this looks bad, but in a way, it too could be a double Trine. Time will tell and I have more research to do. Venus is ones “Loves and Values”. Jeff says that the cardinal signs to get are “Sun, Ascendent, Mercury and Mars”; if you get those you can let the others slide. Well, our loves and values seem to be very much the same. Again, time will tell.

My Mercury is Virgo in the house of Aquarius and hers is Aries in the house of Libra. This may be and seems to be our biggest challenge. Mercury is how you think and communicate. She speaks her mind and will give you the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the Truth as she see’s it; she is not afraid to tell someone where to go and how to get there. That is Mercury in Fire. However; her house placement is Libra which is looking for balance and harmony. So, she could be way worse then she is :) My Venus is Leo and so I value truth and honesty, I expect transparency and truth. My Mercury is Virgo and Aquarius; so I will listen to what she has to say, analyze it and feed it back to her as I see it. So far, this has worked for us. She has two Virgo’s and Understands my Virgo’s :) There has been times where she thought she hurt my feelings because I hadn’t responded right away and then her Libra apologized. However, I wasn’t necessarily hurt; I was still analyzing what she said. But her apology and my being slow to respond gave her Virgo’s time to give me more detail for me to analyze and digest. So there are ways to make weaknesses in astrology work.

My Mars is Virgo in the house of Aquarius and hers is Pisces in the house of Libra. This is a good combination for energy, drive and stamina. Earth and Water are 2nd best and the with our houses Trine, we have yet another powerful alignment. Our business/work signs are too good. My Jupiter is Pisces in the house of Leo and hers is Aries in the house of Scorpio. This again could work as a double Trine, but so far we seem to be headed in the right direction there as well. She is a business woman and took an immediate interest in my business as I did hers. She has already joined part of my business and if all goes well, we will be more like business partners as time prevails. This is something that is a major turn on for me and it seems to be the same for her as well. Both our Jupiter are take charge and goal oriented; hers is more dominant then mine, but mine could take a well placed second seat to hers if all is handle properly. We both understand the consent of “Teamwork Makes The Dream Work”. We could work very well together and I like that :)

I wont go into the rest so much but I will touch on them. Our Saturn and Uranus’s are compatible, Our North and South Nodes of the Moons house placements are compatible, Our Psyche and Eros are compatible; we seem to be emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically compatible an many if not most ways. We have similar cultural and environmental upbringings. We seem to have had similar trauma’s and tragedies growing up; we are also very similar in the metaphysical as well. We are so very much alike and we seem to be able to read each other like we had been together for years; many couples take years before achieving this ability. But again, time will tell. Our Numerology looks good too, but I don’t know that all so much…

So in July, we started going out and all is good so far :) Knowing astrology, psychology and being spiritual in the normal and metaphysical realms, helps a lot. If you are looking for compatibility, we can help you find it too. If you are in a relationship already, we can help there as well. You can contact Jeff or I, we are both good but he has been doing this longer then I have; I just do my astrology different then he does now.

Hope this helps to give you faith, hope and understanding. Hope this finds you well, we would love your prayers and blessings as we will return them unto you. Thank you so much, CainO’ & Kim

 

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When I started this site in March of 2013, I was getting paid $0.00 to do it, I was doing this as a gift because I am a believer. I still make my primary income off my J.O.B. (just over broke) and off the other date lines, web design, hosting and the like; so before you leave, please at least check out one of our links? In the future, I will be making money off this site by doing personal readings and astrological counseling where I can.

I originally bought DatingByTheSigns.com in Sept. 2010 hoping to turn it into a date line as I was starting to get more into astrology myself. I was using the Sun Signs and Chinese Horoscopes to understand people better and felt I was doing way better than just using one sign; I also was looking at their cusps if applicable, which is an attribute we must consider. I wasn’t 100% on target, but what I have learned has put me on the right path. Come to find out, we actually have several signs in our charts, unfortunately I didn’t know enough about astrology to build a date line for it yet. The Chinese astrology is apparently on target too, each Chinese sign translates into the other astrology. Example: Being that the year of the Dragon is the year of Aries and so forth. Now as of Winter 2014, I am going to try and launch another Astrological Dating site; you can “Click Here” to access it now.

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I mostly put this site together in 2012 for one “Jeff DeTrick”, a friend of my associate David Irish of www.DavesHerbShop.com. When I mentioned Dating By The Signs to David Irish around 2010, he told me about Jeff and their history. Until I myself started having serious relationship problems, I never actually contacted Jeff. But when I did; Jeff helped me work through my relationship issues and helped me to understand my signs, so I can focus on pulling from my positives rather then my negatives. It’s to bad he wasn’t practicing what he was teaching me.

Jeff claimed to be studying Eastern Natal (Birth) and Synastry (Compatibility) astrology, but what he taught me was his own spinoff from what he has learned. I keep finding new things wrong in what I learned from him; but for the most part, it was right enough for me to go to the next level. The things he says about astrology is; “It was all created by GOD” & like it says in the bible, “We all have free will over our signs”. We use this to understand who we are, where we are pulling from, who is right for us, and how to deal with the differences you and I have between our charts. If we don’t pull from our positives, then we are going to have problems in life. Then I found out he was using astrology to use and manipulate people, so I got away from him and will not refer anyone to him again. My apologies to those I have already referred to him, I did not know.

The Astrologer who wrote the computer program that I use, says that you don’t have to necessarily be astrologically compatible. It is knowing astrology that helps you to understand each other and why the other person does as they do. Knowing their astrology will help you to get along with them better. From my experience; I would say there are a few astrological positions you MUST have, but others you can let slide.

Jeff started studying astrology and got into the metaphysical in/around 1971, before I was even born. He didn’t start giving readings till 1988, I was in Jr. High at that time. Around 1996 I got into alternative health and then psychology. Over the years, I dabbled in astrology; but it wasn’t till 2012 and meeting Jeff did I discover true astrology. He says I took to it like a duck takes to water; most Gemini’s and Leo’s, especially men, don’t get this. Perhaps my many years of studying people and behavior through psychology helps, that and my two and a half Virgo’s 😉

So if you want to consult a decent astrologer; you can do so here; people have accused me of being psychic when I give them readings :) I am also learning business astrology, to make sure you are compatible in business relationships as well as personal ones. I have a Fire Trine in my business with an Aries and a Sag. and I am learning to only surround myself with astrological compatibility within my inter circle of people.


Another Astrologist I followed was Kapiel Raaj, he is awesome and has a lot of valuable information! I wanted to learn more about the true art of Vedic Astrology, so I am no longer studying under Jeff. However; what I have learned has redirected me back to Western Astrology, which Jeff was doing in the first place from what I understand. But he claimed it to be Eastern, so I don’t know. I just know he wasn’t being honest with his customers and me. As of Jan. 2015 I had a new mentor for about 6 months, but he turned out to be not much better then Jeff.

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So from now on, I am not taking on any more mentors; especially ones with their heads up their butts. Can you tell I have Capricorn influence in my chart? I will learn on my own as I have pretty much have been doing all along. I will take on partners who are equally yoked in astrology and/or students who believe that T3AMWORK MAKES THE DR3AM WORK. If you are a competent astrologer, I am promoting other astrologers on my other site @ DatingByTheSigns.com

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Now that I have been studying since 2010/2012, I know and understand a lot more about people then I did before. In that, I am taking this site to a whole new level now in 2015. I am doing the astrology interpretations for you the people. You can get copies of some of the work I have already done for others here for FREE, but any additional work I do, I need to be compensated for my time, studies and overhead. I am studying to help people in a deeper more psychological and social level.

Astrology comes in many forms; The Farmers Almanac, Astronomy, Horoscopes, and so forth. I was told there are hundreds of different types of astrology; I am now also starting to get into medical astrology, did you know you can also plan your children to be born astrologically compatible to you and therefore have less issues and/or problems with them then people who just wing it in the rest of the world? You can also understand your health issues and health issues of your loved ones through astrology. This is truly fascinating stuff!!!

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