In getting your Chart and Reading, you want to look for people who put signs in your 7th House. These are people you are most likely to pare up with. I will have more details in the future, but also make sure those signs line up with yours.
For example: I have Aries and Taurus on the Cusp of my 7th house.
I am Leo/Virgo Cusp: So someone with Aries or Taurus Sun sign will work for me.
I have a Libra Ascendant, so perhaps an Pisces Ascendant would be best for me. The she would have a Virgo Descendant and have Libra and Virgo on her 7th house Cusp.
My Moon is in Libra, so Moon in Aries would work for me.
I have Mercury in Virgo/Leo Cusp, so someone with Mercury in Taurus would work for me. I would say Aries too; but from my own experience, I am going to opt out of that one. An Aries/Taurus Cusp might work though.
I have Venus in Leo; so even though Venus is Aries is challenging, it would work for me.
I have Mars in Virgo, so someone with Mars in Taurus world work for me.
I have Jupiter in Pisces, so someone with Jupiter in Taurus would work for me.
These are just examples; you do not want someone to have that much of just two signs in their chart, that alone has its own challenges. But like one of my Ex’s was Taurus, Gemini Rising, Moon in Aries, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Aries and Mars in Aries. She and I made it 7 years, she is almost all Aries and Taurus. Another Ex is an Aries, Virgo Rising, Moon in Virgo, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Taurus and Mars in Pisces; she and I made it about one year.
The 1st one had only her Mars off, but was well aspect-ed my her house placement. The second one had her Venus off and possibly her Mercury too. So the Aries and the Taurus need to be in the right places for it to work. If that made since to you. If the second one had her Venus in Aries and Mercury in Taurus instead of the other way around, we may have worked better together.
Now that being said, what is on their 7th house cusps?
The 1st one had Sagittarius and Capricorn on her 7th House Cups and the 2nd one had Pisces and Aries on her 7th House Cusp.
I didn’t put any real planets in their 7th houses; I have Jupiter in Pisces, but that is about it. So I am not fully sure what that means. From my experience; I would say that that meant I was good for them, but they weren’t good for me. But I will have to do some more research on that.
In looking at my chart; I would have to find someone who has an Aquarius Ascendant, like my brother. A Capricorn or Pisces Ascendant would work as well for the 7th house cusps, but they wouldn’t necessarily be compatible to my Libra Ascendant. For example: Taylor Swift would be pretty compatible to me, but she is too young and too famous… The other problem is that she has no Aries and Taurus in her chart, so she put no planets in my 7th house.