OK, here is a couple I just met. Well, I met one of them. He said they have been together since they were like 13yrs old. I didn’t get their birth times, so we don’t know their Ascendants or house placements. So lets look at the basics and see what they have that make them work.

Their Sun signs are compatible and most importantly their Mercury’s are compatible. His Moon is Sagittarius and hers is Cancer. His Venus is Gemini and hers is Scorpio. They both have glue, but she has more glue and both of them have glue in their Mercury. He said that they never fight and he cannot imagine anything better. They seem to be very happy together. Mars, his is Aries on a Taurus cusp and hers is Cancer. Energy wise, they are both pretty much on the same page. Sex wise as well; she needs it more then he does, but not by much. My theory is that it is best that the woman needs it just a bit more then the man, the man will almost always try and keep up.

Other then the Moon and Venus; they are very compatible and they both have glue, so they both believe in commitment above and beyond. There are many other aspects to consider, so lets look at their computer generated “StarMatch” reading:

Introduction

The StarMatch(tm) astrological compatibility report helps you compare two charts by 1) identifying each partner’s emotional needs by describing their Descendant (7th house cusp), Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars; and 2) examining the way their two charts interact. After describing what each partner needs in their love life, the report assesses their interaction by describing the significant aspects between their charts. These aspects identify areas of attraction, harmony, and conflict. The “Strength” noted for each aspect shows its degree of influence on the relationship. The Strength combines the aspect’s closeness of exactitude with its positive or negative value for compatibility purposes. The higher the Strength is, the more strongly the aspect is likely to be felt and acted out in the relationship.
Planets in Signs

Her Sun in Libra

What you need most from a relationship is perpetual growth and development. Your partner must be able to evolve with you as you grow in order that you don’t “outgrow” him or her. You need someone who knows how to keep the excitement alive in your relationship, or who is at least interested in learning how.

Libras love to fall in love, and many of your relationships may break up because of your need for constant change. Eventually you usually settle into a relationship that is stable yet ever-changing which allows you to undergo your own personal evolution.
His Sun in Gemini

Communication is very important in your relationships, and you can learn a great deal through your partners–that is, if you are willing to undergo a little self-examination. You don’t like others to probe your deeper secrets and feel embarrassed at displays of emotion (yours or others’).

It is important to you that your lover be your friend. Sex alone is not going to make you happy in a relationship, no matter how good it is. You have a light-hearted attitude toward sex and need a partner who shares your need for variety and stimulation. You have a knack for sexual experimentation and can become bored with a partner who is not of similar temperament.
Her Moon in Cancer

You are subject to wild mood swings, ranging from blissful excitement to deep depression, and have a tendency toward possessiveness regarding both material things and lovers. Women with this Moon placement make very nurturing mothers, while men are responsible providers for their children. Although you are quick to bestow favors on loved ones, you always expect something in return and feel dejected if you don’t receive it. Be careful not to use guilt to obtain your emotional goals.

You are good at planning for your retirement, and often once people with this placement pass forty years of age, they seem to become more youthful. It is important to you that you have the opportunity to be a grandparent. With business associates you are very shrewd and capable of making money quite easily, especially when it involves real estate and businesses located in the home.
His Moon in Sagittarius

You have a healthy sense of humor and, even in the worst circumstances, can find something bright in any situation. This can be a good attitude as long as you do not take things too lightly. There are times when a serious approach is more effective.

In love you are a warm and friendly companion, and your love relationships mature and grow deeper with time. You enjoy indulging in fantasies and acting them out. You also require a lover who shares your easygoing approach to life and love.
Her Mercury in Scorpio

You take sex very seriously and find it to be a very deep, intense experience. Since you have a special appreciation for having all of the physical pieces fit together in harmony, you tend to get the most you can out of sex. You are intensely passionate and have powerful sexual fantasies. It’s much healthier to find a willing lover to playfully act out these fantasies than to try and repress them, which would result in tremendous frustration.

Your thoughts are very deep, but you will share them only with your closest friends. You are secretive about your life, even when there is really nothing to hide. To others you appear very mysterious. You have a powerful, passionate sex drive and should resist any temptation to use your hypnotic powers on others as a means of control and manipulation.
His Mercury in Cancer

You value privacy and share your innermost feelings with very few people. Once you choose a lover, you are very devoted and loyal. You need little more in life than someone to love and a comfortable home. Indeed, you tend to be more of a “home body” than a socialite, and you need a partner who has similar preferences.

You want to share everything with your lover, and to you the perfect mate is one with whom you can blend souls completely, so that you become one person. While this sounds blissful and ideal, attempting to bond so tightly with some people will cause them to feel crowded and pull away. Whether you are a male or a female, this placement can be a sign of someone who is prone to “love too much.” You need a partner who will not take advantage of your complete devotion.
Her Venus in Scorpio

You are seeking transformation through your love life. A superficial romance does not stimulate you; you need intensity and passion. You are a loyal and committed lover, but you can be possessive and jealous of your lover, and it sometimes seems that intensity is more important to you than comfort in your relationships.

You are aware of everyone and everything around you, and you can often “pick up” your partner’s thoughts and feelings without the need for verbal communication. Passionate sexual expression is very important for you, and you can be persistent in stalking someone who attracts you. Your partner should be able to join you in fantasies and other bedroom games to further heighten the intensity of your sex life.
His Venus in Gemini

You are highly sensuous and enjoy the finer techniques of courting and lovemaking. Verbal affection and communication are important ingredients in any major relationship, and you don’t mind being “sweet-talked.” Sexually, your touch is soft and gentle, and your sexual curiosity is unlimited.

Your love nature constantly changes, and you are very unpredictable in this area. It is necessary that your partner interest and excite you, and it would be helpful if they have a healthy sense of humor. If you get bored with the affair, you may be tempted to move on to more stimulating options.
Her Mars in Cancer

You are a caring and protective lover and are very responsive to the emotional and physical needs of your partner. You are affectionate and sentimental, and feel most comfortable with your lover in familiar, safe surroundings. Although you only seek to nurture your lover, be careful that you do not come on as being overprotective or smothering.

The rhythm of your sexuality is somewhat unpredictable; your desire may build up for a long time before you act upon it, and then your intensity is surprising. Do your lover a favor and let them know when you are feeling amorous. Then you can both be prepared and relax into joyful, loving play.
His Mars in Aries

You have a direct approach to romance and lovemaking, and you need a partner who does not require a great deal of courting and who will not mind that you are most often the initiator in your relationship. You are eager to get to the physical part of lovemaking and should be careful not to leave your partner behind emotionally once you get involved. The lessons you need to learn are self-restraint and patience.

Be careful not to act rashly and impulsively in making commitments in love relationships. Also, be sure to get all sides of the story and think things over carefully before acting in anger. Otherwise, you may regret it when you calm down.
Planets in Aspect

Her Sun trine His Sun (Strength: +1440.0 )

Your temperaments adjust easily to each other, and your personalities naturally harmonize. There is much mutual sympathy and understanding, as well as support in achieving common ideals or goals. This is a positive aspect between any two charts, especially those of love and marriage partners. There is much compatibility and mutual respect.
Her Sun trine His Venus (Strength: +960.0 )

There is a magnetic attraction between you, as well as mutual affection and devotion. You share a strong friendship and are generous and understanding toward each other. There is much mutual respect, and you can encourage each other to be the best you can become. Between romantic partners this aspect indicates domestic harmony, loyalty and fidelity. You share many of the same interests and therefore enjoy a pleasant social life.
Her Mars opposite His Uranus (Strength: -378.0 )

This aspect indicates a conflict of wills between you and a difficulty in cooperating. 10.17.1992 resents the independence and impersonal side of 6.14.1992 and feels that 6.14.1992 is not always dependable. There is irritation between you, which can be upsetting to one or both partners. Romance between you could well end in separation unless you can develop mutual tolerance and patience. It may help if you undergo periodic separations.
Her Mars opposite His Neptune (Strength: -252.0 )

This aspect can be a source of emotional disruption between you. 10.17.1992 is abrupt and impatient; 6.14.1992 is elusive or deceptive in response to 10.17.1992’s pushiness. It is likely that there will be many misunderstandings and disagreements between you. If 6.14.1992 is very sensitive, 10.17.1992’s aggression could upset the health of 6.14.1992. This is not a favorable aspect between partners in a love relationship.
His Uranus conjunct Her Neptune (Strength: +252.0 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. You share a mutual interest in occult, mystic or psychic matters. There is also a similarity in your social or political views. 6.14.1992 can inspire 10.17.1992 to express creativity in new and innovative ways, while 10.17.1992 can contribute vision and compassion to 6.14.1992’s outlook on life.
His Sun opposite Her North Node (Strength: -200.0 )

10.17.1992 acts as a restraining influence on 6.14.1992’s impulsiveness, which 6.14.1992 sees as criticism and interference. It may seem to 10.17.1992 that following 6.14.1992’s advice only takes 10.17.1992’s attention away from important goals and ambitions. However, if 10.17.1992 is able to help 6.14.1992 consider other perspectives and become more of a self-confident individual, then both partners can benefit from this aspect. Also, 6.14.1992 may help 10.17.1992 overcome insecurity and fear of social disapproval.
Her Mercury sextile His Uranus (Strength: +92.3 )

10.17.1992 finds 6.14.1992 to be highly stimulating intellectually and very imaginative. Indeed 10.17.1992 can learn a great deal from this relationship. 10.17.1992 could help give the many ideas of 6.14.1992 substance in the real world by giving them practical application. You have a great deal of intuitive communication between you, and this allows you to share each other’s ideas more freely. 6.14.1992 may stimulate 10.17.1992’s interest in occult or spiritual matters. This is a good combination in an astrologer-client relationship.
Her Mercury square His Saturn (Strength: -49.6 )

6.14.1992 can be critical and discouraging and may tend to harshly judge or discount the intellectual talents and attainments of 10.17.1992. 6.14.1992 can do damage to 10.17.1992’s self-confidence, causing resentment to grow between you. 10.17.1992, you must learn to protect your own spiritual health and well being. 10.17.1992 may feel that 6.14.1992 is limiting 10.17.1992’s growth, and that because of 6.14.1992 there are delays and restrictions placed on 10.17.1992’s progress. 10.17.1992 will seem careless and impulsive to 6.14.1992. It is difficult for you to cooperate with each other (unless the comparison contains several other positive aspects which offset this one). If there are many other mitigating aspects, much can be learned through constructively challenging each other in your individual (and collective) goals in life.
His Venus opposite Her North Node (Strength: -42.0 )

10.17.1992 can appear to be cold and insensitive toward 6.14.1992, which causes 6.14.1992 to consider 10.17.1992 to be withdrawn and antisocial. If the comparison is mostly a favorable one, 6.14.1992 will be able to draw out 10.17.1992 and help 10.17.1992 be more self-confident.
Her Sun opposite His Mars (Strength: -40.9 )

This is an aspect of potential conflict, unless there are many positive aspects balancing out its aggressive energies. There is much mutual stimulation, and there can be jealousy and rivalry. At the very least, you will be impatient with each other; at worst, you will be vindictive. In order to overcome this aspect, you must consciously develop mutual cooperation and patience.
Her Mars trine His Pluto (Strength: +34.3 )

This aspect indicates mutual interests and ambitions, especially if you are working together on a large-scale project. You would work well as partners in research, engineering, politics and civic affairs. This is a very good aspect between business partners, as you can assist each other in achieving individual goals. Between partners in a love relationship there is a strong physical attraction.
Her Mercury trine His Mercury (Strength: +30.0 )

This aspect indicates a great deal of intellectual harmony and agreement. There is much mutual understanding, and any disagreements are easily worked out. Conversations between you are very stimulating, and you have many things in common. You can learn a great deal from each other, as this aspect encourages mutual growth.

Her Uranus conjunct His Neptune (Strength: +28.2 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. You share a mutual interest in occult, mystic or psychic matters. There is also a similarity in your social or political views. 10.17.1992 can inspire 6.14.1992 to express creativity in new and innovative ways, while 6.14.1992 can contribute vision and compassion to 10.17.1992’s outlook on life.

Her Sun trine His Saturn (Strength: +27.6 )

You have no trouble agreeing on how to handle your problems and meet your responsibilities. This aspect encourages confidence, enthusiasm, ambition, organization and persistence in you both. This is a very good combination between romantic or business partners and is an indicator of a long-term relationship. 6.14.1992 stabilizes 10.17.1992, who returns absolute loyalty and reassurance. 10.17.1992 encourages and stimulates 6.14.1992 to act on ideas. Any limitations or restraints that 6.14.1992 may place upon 10.17.1992 usually work out for the ultimate good of both. It also indicates a karmic tie between you.

Her Uranus conjunct His Uranus (Strength: +26.7 )

With Uranus in the same sign, you were either born within seven years of each other or about 80-90 years apart. You react in the same way to new inventions, changes in government, music, etc. You have the same definitions of “freedom” and “independence” and have the same understanding of your generation’s urge to achieve self-expression. You also have similar interests and beliefs regarding metaphysics or nontraditional philosophies.

Her Jupiter square His North Node (Strength: -26.3 )

You have very different opinions as to what constitutes proper social conduct, and each of you often feels that the other’s behavior is inappropriate. 10.17.1992 thinks 6.14.1992 is superficial for blindly following fads and trends. 6.14.1992 believes 10.17.1992 is too traditional and resistant to change.

Her Pluto conjunct His Pluto (Strength: +22.9 )

You are around the same age and have similar experiences of the world. Your ideas and viewpoints have been conditioned in similar directions. Since you share this aspect with everyone close to your age, it is not significant in analyzing compatibility.

Her Sun square His Neptune (Strength: -22.8 )

This can be a difficult aspect in a close relationship, as there is a natural power conflict. 6.14.1992 will seem elusive, evasive and even deceptive to 10.17.1992, and 10.17.1992 is baffled by 6.14.1992. There is a mutual lack of trust and frequent misunderstandings. 6.14.1992 can behave in a misleading manner, appearing to be submissive to 10.17.1992 but actually eluding the issue. The relationship may be marked by doubt, confusion, deception and infidelity.

His Saturn square Her Pluto (Strength: -22.3 )

10.17.1992, as the reformer and transformer, challenges 6.14.1992’s attitudes toward life’s responsibilities. If the comparison is mostly positive, this will represent only a mild test. If there are many negative aspects, this aspect can increase resentment and even lead to hatefulness, which is especially troublesome between parents and children. 10.17.1992 may be tempted to play on 6.14.1992’s fears. 6.14.1992 may try to restrict 10.17.1992’s freedom.

Her Moon sextile His Mars (Strength: +22.3 )

6.14.1992 stimulates the imagination, ideas and self-confidence of 10.17.1992. You can work well together in order to maintain a comfortable home environment and accomplish mutual career goals. As a team, you encourage each other to be the best you each can be. 10.17.1992 has a soothing effect on 6.14.1992, while 6.14.1992 can help 10.17.1992 gain the courage to fight life’s battles.

His Mercury opposite Her Uranus (Strength: -21.2 )

10.17.1992 is stimulating and intriguing to 6.14.1992, but also may at times be irritating and upsetting. 6.14.1992 may not wish to accept the ideas of 10.17.1992, who may seem unstable or erratic to 6.14.1992; at the same time 6.14.1992 seems elusive and superficial to 10.17.1992. This aspect can cause difficulty in relationships and requires considerable understanding and adjustment by both partners. To make things worse, they often share a mutual impatience with the other. Often circumstances bring about repeated separations or an off-and-on relationship. The truth is that you truly need time away from each other, even if you don’t know it.

Her Moon opposite His North Node (Strength: -19.6 )

You have very different opinions regarding social beliefs, popular fads and trends, and economic issues. 6.14.1992 considers 10.17.1992 to be superficial for blindly following the opinion of the crowd. 10.17.1992 sees 6.14.1992 as being negative and pessimistic.

Her Neptune conjunct His Neptune (Strength: +18.9 )

This aspect indicates that you share common ideals and many mutual interests, such as in music, drama, poetry, mysticism or psychic phenomena, religion and politics. It can also indicate a mutual tendency toward escapism, especially through drugs. You share this aspect with everyone in your immediate age group.

Her Moon conjunct His Mercury (Strength: +14.4 )

There is a mental affinity between you and an appreciation for each other’s ideas and views. Conversation is very exciting and stimulating and you can play the roles of both teacher and student with each other. You have many mutual interests, and your association encourages learning. Often there is telepathic thought projection between people with this combination. 6.14.1992 is able to understand 10.17.1992’s worst moods and to even see them as endearing. 10.17.1992 may be fascinated by 6.14.1992’s intellectual qualities and will be a captive audience.

Her Mercury sextile His Neptune (Strength: +13.8 )

6.14.1992 inspires, elevates and encourages 10.17.1992’s ideas. There are many mutual interests with this combination, and you have each other’s better interests at heart. You have well-developed mutual understanding and perhaps even share telepathic communication. In most cases this aspect indicates a psychic tie. 6.14.1992 especially can intuitively sense what 10.17.1992 is thinking. 10.17.1992 can often make practical suggestions to apply 6.14.1992’s intuition and imagination.

His Moon sextile Her Saturn (Strength: +10.0 )

This aspect indicates a favorable give-and-take arrangement whereby 10.17.1992 provides stability and 6.14.1992 in turn enlarges the ideas of 10.17.1992. 10.17.1992 will be dependable and trustworthy and can counsel 6.14.1992. There is mutual trust and respect here. 10.17.1992 brings out the more conservative qualities in 6.14.1992. You have little difficulty managing money together and, if you have children, you will most likely agree on how to raise them.

Her Moon sextile His Jupiter (Strength: +9.5 )

This is a very positive aspect in any relationship, as it encourages mutual confidence and respect. 6.14.1992 stimulates 10.17.1992’s imagination and self-confidence and will also be patient, tolerant, generous and protective. Even if the relationship should end, 6.14.1992 would never hold any ill feelings toward 10.17.1992. If 6.14.1992 is spiritually inclined, 6.14.1992 will have an inspiring effect on 10.17.1992, bringing out 10.17.1992’s best qualities. This aspect also promotes cooperation in raising children. You would also enjoy traveling together to foreign lands.

His Neptune sextile Her Pluto (Strength: +6.2 )

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.

Her Sun square His Uranus (Strength: -5.8 )

Freedom is a problem area in your relationship. 10.17.1992 finds 6.14.1992 to be annoyingly unpredictable, and 6.14.1992 resents 10.17.1992’s attempts at control and will rebel against any display of power or authority by 10.17.1992. In extreme cases your conflicts may even become violent. It is difficult to achieve cooperation with this combination, and it often causes conflict and separations. Both of you are impatient with the other and find it difficult to see things from their perspective.

Her Mercury conjunct His Pluto (Strength: +4.8 )

Your experiences together will transform both your lives and will especially stimulate 10.17.1992’s mind. You each have a profound transformative effect upon the other’s basic beliefs and level of awareness. You also share a mutual interest in the occult or psychic matters. 6.14.1992’s influence on 10.17.1992 is stronger than 10.17.1992’s on 6.14.1992. Through conversation 10.17.1992’s ideas may be transformed by 6.14.1992, and 10.17.1992 may resent being “brainwashed.” But actually 6.14.1992 is trying to force 10.17.1992 to explore new dimensions of thinking so that 6.14.1992 can examine the ideas in greater depth. You can teach each other a great deal and will broaden each other’s view of the world.

Her Venus conjunct His Pluto (Strength: +2.4 )

This aspect can indicate mutual social or economic benefit to each partner. You share a deep emotional tie, and between partners in a romantic relationship there is usually a strong sexual connection. 6.14.1992 may tend to be demanding, jealous or possessive toward 10.17.1992. You have most likely shared many incarnations together and bring a karmic tie into your relationship in this lifetime.

Her Neptune sextile His Pluto (Strength: +2.0 )

You encourage each other to remain versatile in life and to garner the greatest spiritual meaning out of life’s everyday activities that you can. You share this aspect with all people in your immediate age group.

His Jupiter trine Her Uranus (Strength: +1.1 )

You respect each other’s need for freedom and individuality of expression. 6.14.1992 will encourage 10.17.1992’s originality and inventiveness and can tolerate 10.17.1992’s displays of Uranian independence. This is a good contact between the charts of business partners, in which case 10.17.1992 would supply the creative originality and 6.14.1992 the capital to finance development of the ideas. There is much mutual inspiration and often a shared interest in metaphysics or occult matters.

His Mars trine Her North Node (Strength: +0.8 )

Cooperation comes easy for you, whether it’s in business or domestic affairs. 6.14.1992 has a great deal of energy and motivation to initiate projects. 10.17.1992 has a finger on the pulse of society’s fads and trends and can help 6.14.1992’s projects gain wider public acceptance.

His Uranus sextile Her Pluto (Strength: +0.8 )

Since both of these planets move rather slowly, this aspect is one which you will share with anyone of your respective ages. It indicates mutual encouragement and cooperation, especially in projects requiring versatility and innovative thinking. 10.17.1992 can help 6.14.1992 to assert 6.14.1992’s individuality more effectively, while 6.14.1992 can show 10.17.1992 new ways of reaching goals in life. This is also an excellent aspect for spiritual development in either or both of you.
Her Saturn conjunct His Saturn (Strength: +0.7 )

You have similar needs for security in life, and you both are ambitious about achieving your goals. Therefore, you understand what makes each other tick emotionally. If the comparison is a positive one overall, this aspect will encourage effective and satisfying teamwork. If there are many negative aspects, this one will lead to feelings of restriction, worry and lack of self-confidence. As with other Saturn contacts, this one indicates longevity of the relationship (provided that the parties can make it through the required adjustment period.)

His Moon conjunct Her North Node (Strength: +0.6 )

Your beliefs about popular trends and social attitudes are compatible, and you are likely to have similar family backgrounds and social status. Therefore, your cultural and moral values are usually in agreement and you have many mutual interests.

His Sun square Her Jupiter (Strength: -0.5 )

6.14.1992 tends to shift responsibility to 10.17.1992, and at times it appears that 6.14.1992 expects 10.17.1992 to be willing to do all the giving. In an effort to please, 10.17.1992 may make promises which cannot be fulfilled and therefore disappoint 6.14.1992. There may be major differences between your ideals, ambitions and ethics. 6.14.1992 may expect too much of 10.17.1992 and must develop a sense of compromise. This is not a seriously adverse aspect if most of the comparison is harmonious.

His Saturn sextile Her North Node (Strength: +0.2 )

You share similar concerns regarding the current state of society, the economy and politics. In business you would be able to combine 6.14.1992’s planning abilities and 10.17.1992’s insight into current trends to achieve success for you both.

His Mercury opposite Her Neptune (Strength: -0.1 )

This aspect indicates frequent misunderstandings and even possibly deception, especially by 10.17.1992. At the very least, there will be many secrets that 10.17.1992 will not share with 6.14.1992. It’s possible you may out and out lie to each other, or that more subtle forms of deception will be practiced. 6.14.1992 is often at a loss to understand 10.17.1992, and 10.17.1992 may seem distant or detached to 6.14.1992. This combination is more difficult on 6.14.1992 than 10.17.1992. In a business relationship there is a danger of fraud.

Synastry Aspect Numerical Totals

Communication Index (Harmonious): +3022
Communication Index (Inharmonious): -1453
Compatibility Index (Har./Inhar.): 2.08
Total Communication Index: 4476